3.1. Search outcomes and study characteristics
The flow chart of the literature selection (Fig. 1) provides an overview of the search results. After removing duplicates, 1054 hits (1003 + 51) were identified in the Medline, CINAHL and MIDIRS databases and then screened. Citation tracking and other search sources (e.g., asking colleagues) yielded 11 additional hits. Of these, 61 abstracts related to fathers’ experiences. The scoping review includes 35 studies that meet the inclusion criteria. 13 use a qualitative method approach, 17 use a quantitative approach and five a mixed-method approach. In some studies, participants are first-time fathers, while other studies also examine fathers of more than one child. Seven studies also examined the experiences of the women giving birth [41–47]. Another examines the experiences of the mother and sisters of the women giving birth [48]. As mentioned above, only one study includes same-sex partners in addition to fathers [42]. The time span of postpartum follow-up ranges from 24 hours after birth to one year after birth. Some studies do not specify at what time after birth the data collection took place.
The majority of the qualitative studies used open or semi-structured interviews, two of them in combination with observation. In the included mixed-method studies, data were collected mainly through closed- and open-ended questions. Most quantitative studies were conducted with self-developed questionnaires. In one case the Salmon’ Items List was adapted to men [49], and in another, the rate of PTSD was measured using established instruments [50]. One study combined the results of their questionnaire with data collected using the State-Trait-Anxiety Inventory (STAI) during childbirth [27]. In the period from 2000 to 2021, only one validated questionnaire (the First-time Father Questionnaire) was found, and two of the included studies referred to it [51, 52].
3.2. Findings – thematic areas of birth experience
Four main themes relate to fathers’ experiences of clinical birth: Intense feelings, the role of support, staff support, and the becoming a father. Table 3 provides an overview of the included studies.
3.2.1. Intense feelings
Almost all included studies report intense feelings among fathers. The most commonly reported feelings are anxiety, ranging from worry to fear, and helplessness [47, 51–59]. For fathers, dealing with women’s pain during birth is extremely challenging [47, 49, 55, 60–63], especially when pain increases, something unexpected happens, and the couple is left alone [59]. Fathers worry about the health and life of both the woman and the baby [57, 60, 62, 64]. The inability to help her or to share the pain is one of the overwhelming memories [65] and leads to helplessness [66]. This helplessness can lead to feelings of panic [44, 67]. The greater the level of anxiety, the lower the satisfaction with the birth experience [27]. Higher levels of anxiety have been found to be associated with an unplanned pregnancy, feeling poorly prepared for labour and birth, a lower sense of control, and paternal history of mental health issues [50].
While some studies show that fathers who already have children are less fearful [57], Bradley et al. report higher levels of ‘intrusion’ and ‘avoidance’ (symptoms of PTSD) when fewer children and fewer births were experienced [50]. Regardless of the number of births experienced, Vischer et al. (2020) found that the PTSD symptom ‘intrusion’ was still prevalent in fathers six months after birth. The authors’ explanation is that the birth experience is still very present due to the memorable event. They did, however, find that not a single father met all the criteria for PTSD after experiencing the birth [54].
Fathers feel vulnerable and highly stressed in this unknown situation [53, 68] and report a variety of emotions. Gawlik et al. describe the birth experience for fathers as a multidimensional process, similar to mothers’ [49]. Fathers are unsure of how to act [56] and struggle with emotional distress [46, 59]. Feelings of lack of control [45, 57] are described, as are feelings of tension or guilt [64]. Stress levels are particularly high among fathers who felt pressured to be present at birth [68]. Fathers sometimes report ambivalent feelings: they want to be there, but at the same time are afraid of what they might see [59], or even have the impulse to flee [64]. In two studies, some fathers expressed fears about negative effects on their sex lives [55, 64]. While some studies report that fathers felt well prepared [43], in others all fathers stated that they were not really prepared for what was happening because they could not imagine it [53, 59]. Some fathers talk about the discrepancy between their expectations and the actual duration of the birth, in both directions [61, 66].
The environment also has an impact on fathers’ feelings. Men state that the unfamiliar environment in a hospital birthing room causes discomfort [65] or criticise the equipment, describing a lack of privacy and even seating [61]. Harte et al. conducted a single-case study to examine the influence of the hospital environment on the experiences of birth companions [48]. They found that support people felt disorientated, inhibited and hesitant in the environment, with the predominant feeling was ‘unbelonging’. They wanted to build a nest for the women, but felt foreign, uncomfortable and lacking in privacy. They felt that that they had no control over the birthing room; the equipment frightened them and they found it disruptive.
Other factors affecting fathers’ feelings are the impacts of the birth process itself. Experiencing interventions or witnessing complications is perceived as stressful and difficult [63, 66]. Men whose partners adopt an upright position are more likely to have a positive birth experience and feel more comfortable and powerful than those where a horizontal birth position is adopted [69]. There were conflicting results regarding the use of analgesia in labour. In one study, men whose partners received analgesia perceived their presence as more necessary, helpful and relaxing. They felt more involved, less anxious and stressed [27]. In contrast, in the study by Bélanger-Lévesque et al., the use of epidural analgesia is a significant predictor of lower satisfaction [42]. Different modes of birth also affect fathers’ feelings differently, although the data are also inconsistent. Premberg et al. found that fathers were more worried when the child was born by caesarean section or instrumental birth than when a spontaneous vaginal birth was possible [51]. Rosich-Medina & Shetty and Johansson & Hildingsson report more negative feelings about emergency caesareans and instrumental births in fathers, than in those who witness vaginal birth or elective caesarean [58, 70]. Bélanger-Lévesque et al. report lower satisfaction among fathers attending instrumental birth and primary caesarean section [42]. Chan & Paterson-Brown, however, report more negative feelings during a caesarean birth than during a normal or instrumental birth [43]. In contrast, Porrett et al. found no significant difference in fathers’ experiences between birth modes [62].
Despite these negative feelings, many of the included studies report positive overall experiences for fathers [42–47, 49, 71]. Most men report a desire to be present at a future birth and advise other men to attend [52, 54, 55, 65].
The studies comparing the experiences of fathers and mothers all concluded that the overall experience was the same for both parents, but that they differed on individual subthemes [42, 44–46]. While the fathers feel they were not supportive, mothers report the opposite. Women rate father involvement and support as more active and positive than men do [43, 45, 46]. Men hide their feelings from the woman giving birth so as not to worry her [56]. However, there are also findings that the fathers’ experiences are rated more negatively by mothers than by fathers themselves [43], which leads the authors to conclude that the men do not seem to have hidden their feelings from women.
The feelings reported by fathers also relate to the role they assumed during childbirth. Johnson report higher levels of stress in men who did not fulfil their expectations of the role [68].
3.2.2. Role of support
In five studies, the majority of men were found to have felt helpful and important in supporting the woman giving birth [47, 53–55, 62]. However, in four studies the opposite was found: men felt unable to meet the mother’s needs and did not believe that they had been supportive [45, 68, 69, 72]. Partners aim to provide comfort and protection [48, 73], for example, by withholding negative information or advocating for the woman during conflicts with staff [56]. They provide emotional support by being present and offering conversation, physical support by aiding different birthing positions or easing mobility, and informational support by mediating between staff and the woman [47, 66]. They try to be part of the process [53], want to be seen as one half of the birthing couple [67], but are sometimes described as being on the edge of events [72]. It can be difficult for the father to find his role, regardless of factors such as environment or staff [72]. Sometimes the role of the father is described as ‘just being there’ [59, 72]. Several studies report that men would like to be more involved [69, 71] and some even report feeling they have no role or are in the way [48, 65, 68]. When fathers feel involved in the birth process, they also feel more useful [62]. In Krulis et al. the majority of the fathers were satisfied with the role they played [61].
It is typical for the man to put his own needs aside and to hide own feelings [56]. The role of the support person is described as highly variable [61], depending on personality [59], and an individual partner’s assumed role can change during the birth process [48]. Tarlazzi et al. describe fathers as more engaged and active in the second stage of labour when pain is described as more active [59].
Studies attempting to classify different roles describe, for example, an observer role (distant and disinterested, passive or vigilant active observer role), a carer role (providing comfort and emotional support), an intermediary role (facilitating information sharing) and an advocate role (representing the woman’s needs by advocating for her) [72].
The environment influences the role of support people by either providing a place to be present and responsive to the woman’s needs or by preventing closeness [48]. Technology influences this, as do the presence of staff and the woman’s expectations and encouragement [73].
3.2.3. Staff support
The behaviour and communication of medical staff are described as having a strong influence on partners’ feelings [66]. The fathers’ role in labour is also related to the support provided by the staff [56, 67]. They need the midwife’s guidance to find their role [53]. Fathers’ needs are varied, but what seems to be the most important is information, especially about the birth process, particularly for those who are unmarried, have a lower education status, and for first-time fathers [74]. In Eggermont et al`s [74]study, formal information needs were given higher priority than involvement in the birth process, but midwives were found to overlook this or give unwanted information [74]. Hildingsson et al. also found information to be a high priority among fathers with more than one child. First-time fathers in this study, however, considered it more important for the midwife to be present and supportive [71]. Premberg et al. found that fathers whose child was born by caesarean section also rated the provision of information highly [51]. The information needed by fathers relates to what is happening and how they can help [56, 61, 66, 67]. They need support in their ability to support the woman [60], for example, by the midwife showing the father how to be supportive or for the father to imitate the midwife [67]. They want to receive clear and appropriate information, and feel more confident when midwives know when and how to act as midwives themselves [69].
In addition to information, emotional support and acceptance are important factors [51]. Fathers want to feel that their presence is important [56], to be treated with respect and empathy, and to be actively involved in the decision-making process [57, 60]. Whether fathers feel supported during childbirth depends on whether they feel included as one half of the birthing couple, or whether they feel marginalised [67]. The partner needs informative and emotional support to feel calm and find their role [48]. Men want to be treated as an important part, both as an individual and as part of the birthing couple [67]. They want to be involved but also have the option of not being involved [67]. When lack of importance and support are perceived this leads to helplessness and panic and makes their supportive role more difficult [67], or leads to a more passive role [73]. However, 72 [72] show that staff behaviour or language did not affect fathers’ feelings of being on the periphery of events during childbirth [72].
Fathers frequently report low professional support [45, 52, 67, 71, 74, 75]. Fathers would have liked the midwife to be present more often and for more information about the birth process to have been provided [45]. There is a large discrepancy between the perceived reality of receiving enough information and the subjective importance of it [71]. Support options, such as holding the birthing woman were reportedly difficult to implement because of environmental factors, e.g., lack of space or convenient options [48].
In contrast, other studies report that midwifery care, opportunities for participation and decision-making were better than expected or needed [71]; staff care is overwhelmingly positively viewed [61], and the majority found staff helpful in answering questions and reducing anxiety [62]. The midwife’s competence, her calming manner, and communication with her were perceived as helpful [61]. Fathers do not express the need for emotional support, probably because, as mentioned above, they suppress their feelings [74].
Involvement in care, trustworthy and supportive staff [57], satisfaction with midwife presence and the provision of information are related to a positive birth experience [71]. Limited participation in the decision-making process, lack of support from staff, and lack of information are related to a negative birth experience [57]. The more informed fathers feel, the more they find that the birth was as they expected [62].
While some studies find no difference in fathers’ ages [62, 71], other studies showed that younger fathers have a greater need for emotional support and acceptance [51].
3.2.4. Becoming a father
The moment of birth is described as a life-changing and overwhelming moment characterised by feelings of love and belonging [21, 66]. The best moment of the birth experience is the physical appearance of the baby [55, 63] followed by great feelings of relief [66]. Fathers want to hold the baby in their arms as soon as possible [60] and describe witnessing the birth of the child – along with supporting the woman – as the most important reason to accompany the birth [47]. Potential emotional disconnection during pregnancy and birth can now be reconnected [72]. Birth as the beginning of fatherhood is described as a transformation [21]. The cutting of the umbilical cord is referred to as a “rite of passage”, the physical separation of mother and baby [65], or the event that makes the baby an independent person [47]. The feelings are described as much stronger than expected, the greatest event in their lives [53], wonderful and different from anything else [21]. Fathers feel the bond with the child [72], but also feel the bond as a trio [21]. The birth experience can strengthen and enhance the relationship with the woman [43, 64]. However, feelings of fear for the child and strangeness are also reported [64].
Table 3
Characteristics of the included studies.
Authors, Year
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Country
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Sample
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Birth modesa
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Study design
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Awad & Bühling, 2011
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Germany
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86 first-time and multiple fathers
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All
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Quant
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Bäckström & Hertfelt Wahn, 2011
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Sweden
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10 first-time fathers
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Vaginal
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Qual
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Bélanger-Lévesque et al., 2014
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Canada
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200 first-time and multiple parents
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All
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Quant
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Bradley et al., 2008
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UK
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199 first-time and multiple fathers
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not specified
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Quant
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Capogna et al., 2007
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Italy
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243 fathers
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Vaginal
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Quant
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Chan & Paterson-Brown, 2002
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UK
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114 fathers and 112 mothers
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All
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Quant
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Eggermont et al., 2017
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Belgium
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72 first-time or multiple fathers
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Vaginal
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Quant
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Erlandsson & Lindgren, 2009
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Sweden
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16 first-time and multiple fathers
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All
|
Qual
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Franzen et al., 2021
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Switzerland & France
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151 first-time fathers
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All
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Quant
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Gawlik et al., 2015
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Germany
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88 first-time and multiple fathers
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All
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Quant
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Harte et al., 2016
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Australia
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first-time father; mother and sisters of the birthing woman
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not specified
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Qual
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Hildingsson et al., 2011
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Sweden
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595 first-time and multiple fathers
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Normal vaginal
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Quant
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Howarth et al., 2019
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New Zealand
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155 first-time fathers
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not specified
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Mix
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Johansson et al., 2012
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Sweden
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827 first-time and multiple fathers
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All
|
Mix
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Johansson & Hildingsson, 2013
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Sweden
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827 first time and multiple
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All
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Quant
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Johansson & Thies-Lagergren, 2015
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Sweden
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221 fathers
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All
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Mix
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Johnson, 2002a
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UK
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53 fathers
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Normal vaginal
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Quant
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Johnson, 2002b
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UK
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53 resp. 20 first-time and multiple fathers
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Normal vaginal
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Mix
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Kopff-Landas et al., 2008
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France
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33 first-time parents
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Vaginal
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Qual
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Köhne & Hellmers, 2015
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Germany
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12 fathers
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Vaginal
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Qual
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Krulis et al., 2020
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Austria
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12 first-time fathers
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no primary CS
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Qual
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Ledenfors & Berterö, 2016
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Sweden
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8 first-time fathers
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Normal vaginal
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Qual
|
Longworth & Kingdon, 2011
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UK
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11 first-time fathers
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not specified
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Qual
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Longworth et al., 2021
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UK
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12 first and multiple parents
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not specified
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Qual
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Moreau et al., 2009
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France
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33 first-time parents
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Vaginal
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Quant
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Nystedt & Hildingsson, 2018
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Sweden
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928 first-time mothers and 818 first-time fathers
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All
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Quant
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Porrett et al., 2013
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Australia
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163 first-time fathers
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All
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Quant
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Premberg et al., 2011
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Sweden
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10 first-time fathers
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Vaginal
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Qual
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Premberg et al., 2012
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Sweden
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200 first time fathers
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All
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Quant
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Rosich-Medina & Shetty, 2007
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United Kingdom
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150 first-time fathers
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All
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Quant
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Sapountzi-Krepia et al., 2015
|
Greece
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228 first-time and multiple fathers
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not specified
|
Qual
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Sydow & Happ, 2012
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Germany
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30 first-time fathers
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All
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Qual
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Tarlazzi et al., 2015
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Italy
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6 first-time fathers
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Vaginal
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Qual
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Thies-Lagergren & Johansson, 2019
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Sweden
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209 couples
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All
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Quant
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Vischer et al., 2020
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Germany
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318 first-time and multiple fathers
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All
|
Mix
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