During their counseling sessions, pregnant/parenting girls showed evidence of psychological trauma as a result of their pregnancies (and other associated concerns), whether the latter were rape-related or not. All psychologists noted the deep traumatization of the girls concerned, with one specifying that, while the first line of counseling provided was important and helpful, many of the girls actually required long-term psychotherapy.
The sexual debut of many girls occurred in the context of sexual violence. Several girls found it challenging to disclose their horrifying experiences to anyone, and had not spoken about them until they were asked if they wanted to speak to someone during data collection for the wider study. Similar findings emerged from Kenya’s second Violence Against Children Survey (MLSP, 2019), which demonstrated that 43% of 13- to 17-year-old girls who experienced an incident of sexual violence in the past 12 months did not tell anyone about their experience.
The circumstances described above resulted in a wide range of psychological problems and mental health issues described by pregnant and parenting girls, including depression, fear, suicidal ideation, insomnia, reduced self-esteem, and hopelessness, as outlined below:
(The girl started crying). I gave her time and I asked her if she was ready to continue. This was after doing a bit of counselling and she was okay… She said, “[A boy I met on the road while running an errand] locked me up for two days and threatened that if I dare screamed, he would kill me. I didn’t know his parents had travelled and he knew he was all alone, and nobody would know what was happening. He had sex with me, which was the worst experience that I have ever had. I cried, but he was not ready to let me go. He forced me. After the second day, he let me go, but he warned me never to tell anyone. The experience was very scary, and I didn’t tell my mom or anyone. I thought she would beat me. I used to cry every day[.] … After one month, I noticed some changes and I started throwing up and getting sick. My mother took me to the hospital, and I was pregnant. This broke me into pieces, and I didn’t have a way forward. I wanted to commit suicide[.] 15-year-old girl
The girl was very innocent, and she hadn’t started her period yet. … She remembers this day when there was a function at his place [a family friend and peer]. “[E]veryone, including my family, attended. … It was a bit dark [when it was time to go home], and I was scared. He offered to escort me and since he was like a brother, I didn’t mind. … All of the sudden, he started removing my clothes and I had no idea what was going on. I told him to stop, but he refused. I got so confused and before I knew it, he started ‘doing bad manners to me’ [having sex with me]. I screamed and I cried, but he covered my mouth. Once he was done, he left me and warned me never to tell anyone. I was very scared, and I didn’t sleep for 2 weeks. I had nightmares. After a few months, I started seeing my stomach [growing] big. I had no idea what was happening.” Age not recorded
Her sleep is not smooth: “I see demons and sometimes wake up screaming loudly,” she said. 17-year-old girl
I then did a … [counseling] session with … [the girl] who was very traumatized and had threatened suicide. This was the most difficult session because, at the middle of the session, the girl broke down. She said her mom and siblings have not been talking to her and they have no idea what happened. “I was raped,’’ said the girl. She said nobody ever asked her [what happened]. I gave her time to calm down and later on she explained to me that her boyfriend, who was in [secondary school], forced her to have sex when she was on her way home from church. “He convinced me to stop by his house and he locked the door and raped me. I tried to scream, but he covered my mouth. I didn’t know I got pregnant until I missed my period. 15-year-old girl
This particular girl was forced to have sex by her boyfriend, and she got pregnant. She was very traumatized, and she feels useless. “I feel as if there is no need of living,” the girl said. She said … when she visited [her boyfriend] as she used to do, he pulled her into the bedroom and started to undress her. She tried to shout, but he covered her mouth. “I have never had sex before, and this left me pregnant.” 14-year-old girl