Gender as a social process implies an ongoing socialization of feminine and masculine norms, roles, relationships and expectations since men and women are culturally conditioned to perceive and respond differently to life events, such as illness [21]. Our findings indicate that gender has a different impact on cancer distress during time both from the psychological and physical point of view. Younger age, females and breast cancer were associated with a higher level of distress at baseline compared with patients at older age, males and other tumor sites at their initial cancer history. Moreover, retired people have a lower distress and fatigue than employees who most likely feel they cannot cope with work commitments at a time when they have less physical and psychological abilities following the illness [22, 23].
Our findings are consistent with previous studies conducted among various patient [24, 25] and healthy populations [26]. The difference in the distress level between men and women at the initial visit could depend on two complementary factors. The first is linked to a greater ease of women to recognize and express their emotions, speak of themselves and capture life situations in terms of interpersonal relations [27]. The second explanation can be linked to the greater attention paid to psychological discomfort in women with cancer. For instance, breast cancer research is well supported and thus the capacity of women to express discomfort and their strategies for adapting to the disease has been a subject of many studies, whereas cancer distress may be unrecognized in men and elderly patients [28].
Our main study objective was to evaluate the effect of gender on cancer distress throughout time in a prospective cohort of cancer survivors assessed by a team of two specialists, a psycho-oncologist and a medical oncologist, in a real time, sequential session, thus favoring emotional expression and facilitating patient-medic communication and reducing the inter-observer variability. Our findings show that while distress remains unchanged or even decreases in women with time, especially at emotional level, there is a significant increase of distress in men which is mainly associated with an increase in physical symptoms and emotional problems. Conversely, fatigue remains stable over time in both men and women. These results seem to be in line with previous findings which showed that women have a greater ease to recognize and express emotions, abilities from which they receive greater benefit in terms of satisfaction in life, self-esteem and minor anxiety [29]. We hypothesize that men are less able to make use of emotional expression as a coping strategy. Men tend to build their identity on control, strength, problem-solving and may have more difficulty accepting the loss of control and adapt to a situation of greater dependence [30]. Men also have a greater difficulty to admit to feel vulnerable and seek help by doctors [31]. The difficulty to recognize and express their emotions derives from cultural aspects and social expectations that have their roots in primary relationships. For example, the mother, in communicating with her child, recognizes and shares much more emotions with her daughter than her son, expecting the girl to be more emotional [32]. In line with this reasoning, the suicide rate is much higher in men than in women[33] despite a higher rate of depression and suicide attempts in women [34]. In addition, the request for euthanasia and physician-assisted suicide in cancer patients are significantly more frequent in men than in women [35].
So, women seem better to adapt to the 'role of patients' [36] and over time tolerate physical symptoms better and seem to become resilient to the loss of self-esteem and difficulty. The fact that men initially have a lower distress compared to women is supposedly due to the implementation of negative mechanisms and the lack of tools to adapt to the disease over time.
On the other hand, studies [37] have found that cancer-related masculine threat was significantly associated with decreased emotional processing, which ultimately explained the effect of cancer-related masculine threat on poor physical outcomes. Gender role conflict was also found to explain distress in men with prostate cancer [14]. Our study population of men was mainly composed of prostate cancer. Overall, these data suggest that gender role conflict and emotional approach coping, with the tendency for men to inhibit emotional expression, may lead to negative cancer-related physical and psychological events. Our hypotheses need to be addressed in a future study, including the studies of gender related differences in coping strategies. Although our study did not address specifically the role of hormonal components, these factors are known to impact the health of patients with cancer [38, 39]. A hormonal component is important given the known ability of estrogens to adapt to distress based on their neurotrophic and neuroprotective actions. Estrogens, via their signaling mechanisms and interactions with multiple neurotransmitter systems in our brain, have heavy involvement in cognition and mood [40]. Moreover, the modulatory roles of estrogen receptors and estrogen signaling on brain function have been highlighted, with studies reporting their neuroprotective effects on the brain by promoting neurotrophins synthesis and protecting the brain from inflammation and stress [41].
The ability to adapt depends upon the strategies of coping. While women tend to rely upon a psychological support based on emotional aspects, men are more focused on strategies of problem solving. The consequence is that women benefit more of help care strategies that are typically offered, including psychological support and psychotherapy. On the contrary, men difficulties to cope with the disease over time illustrates the necessity at act preventively to favor recognition of these difficulties. So men manifest a lower distress at their initial visit possibly because of mechanisms of negation and defense generally associated with low level of emotional distress.
Our study has some limitations including the small group of investigators which was composed of two health professionals which may limit the generalizability of our findings. Secondly, we did not assess the efficacy of the psychological session in terms of distress reduction after the session so our hypothesis of a beneficial effect remains to be proven.
Our findings of an increase of distress during time in men strongly suggest the men should be helped to get in touch with their emotions and needs since the beginning of their disease trajectory. Our scheme of a double visit in immediate sequence is oriented precisely to achieve this goal. The psychological session with the psycho-oncologist is a space, even a mental one, for focusing on the emotions related to the patient's experience of illness at that moment and helps both the patient and the doctor not to neglect these emotional aspects. The highest distress in male cancer survivors over time is also related to the increase in physical symptoms and while it is true that symptoms can be the cause of an increased distress it is also true that a higher distress determines a lower tolerance to physical symptoms that are lived with greater intensity and amplified. For example, symptoms such as pain, nausea and insomnia have an emotional component that is important to consider for better care [42].
In conclusion, our findings indicate that women with cancer tend to have a stable distress during follow-up whereas men tend to worsen it, especially because of physical and emotional problems, suggesting different coping capabilities. Our data suggest that men have greater difficulty than women in recognizing their vulnerability and in processing emotions which determines a difficulty in adapting and a progressive increase in distress during the course of the disease. Our results suggest the importance to promote emotional expression in male cancer survivors and focus on one's needs during the screening for distress. The screening can be very useful because it helps patients to talk about their diagnosis and treatment. It provides a vocabulary for thoughts, feelings and concerns that the patients and health care providers can use to communicate as they discuss the treatment protocol and what to expect in terms of quality of life.