The analysis resulted in one main theme: Navigating equity factors to gain and keep status, with three underlying themes. The themes and sub-themes are presented in Table 3.
Table 3. Main theme, themes, and sub-themes.
Main theme
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Navigating equity factors to gain and keep status
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Themes
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Guided by social norms
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Negative impact in everyday life
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Importance of family influence
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Sub-themes
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Money equaling status
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Experiencing prejudice
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Family affluence affecting
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Musts being gendered
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Causing insecurity
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Dealing with parents’ opinions
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Being of different background
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Being left outside
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Feeling pressure for a good future
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Questioning unfair norms
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Guided by social norms
This theme was constituted by four sub-themes: Money equaling status, Musts being gendered, Being of different background, and Questioning unfair norms. The participants were aware of and reflected on how factors such as race, gender, and socioeconomics impacted their lives. They expressed awareness of which norms they had to navigate in order to gain and keep status. The impact of race, gender, and socioeconomics was often expressed in terms of stress or pressure. Norms and expectations guided the participants’ behavior and reasoning in everyday life, but at the same time they were critical of them, expressing that you should not have to follow these norms and expectations.
Fitting in with the social norms, for instance, having money, could give you status. This was expressed by one participant in the sub-theme Money equaling status:
Girl 1: “Here [where we live], there is a lot of baiting about money, you should always be the best and be better than everyone, that is something that we thought about.”
Interviewer: “Could you elaborate on this baiting? How can you experience that at your age?”
Girl 2: “There’s a lot of competitions, like who has the most expensive clothes and stuff like that.”
(School 5)
Having money was described to be an important status marker that could be stressful to uphold. Not being able to afford certain things, could mark you out as being of low status, as expressed by another participant who discussed the many ideals you are supposed to live up to:
“How you should be and look, what stuff you’re supposed to have, which is linked to money. If you don’t have the newest cellphone, you’re considered poor, or if you don’t have designer clothes, don’t have a lot of money, don’t live in a fancy neighborhood and stuff like that.”
(Boy, School 4).
Some of the everyday expectations were thought to be gendered, as expressed within the sub-theme Musts being gendered, where participants discussed how norms were different for boys and girls. The expectations to be met in everyday life were seen as conforming to traditional gender roles, girls being more concerned with their looks than boys. However, the importance of designer clothes was considered more of a burden for boys, while at the same time boys were described as being more free to wear whatever, and look however, they wanted, as expressed by some participants.
Girl 1: “Guys can wear sweats, but us girls, make-up, hair, jeans, well everything. We have to, ‘I have to have a body’. Guys don’t think about the body, it’s more girls.”
Boy 1: “I can agree with that.”
Boys 2: “I can put on anything, then I go to school.”
(School 1)
Another equity-related aspect affecting everyday challenges was described as background. Social factors such as race, culture, religion, language, and nationality were all discussed under the label of background. Background was often highlighted in terms of “different background,” expressing that it deviated from the norm, within the sub-theme of Being of different background. The norms related to “background” became visible by what was labeled as “different.” Examples of what was deemed different were: not being white, not being Swedish, or not being a secular Christian. Being one of those seen as “different” meant not being able to go unnoticed, as described by one participant:
“It was like, people didn’t think it was weird but still said ‘that’s so weird, isn’t it super weird to not celebrate Christmas like everyone else, what do you do on Christmas Eve?’. And she didn’t like hearing this, it became a big deal in school.”
(Girl, School 6)
Within the sub-theme Questioning unfair norms, the participants reflected on social norms and how they provide different opportunities. This was often discussed in a spirit of solidarity with others, such as awareness of the fact that the pressure to wear expensive clothes or to engage in expensive activities would hit some peers, who could not afford these things, harder. Some also expressed that you should not have to suffer negative consequences because of your socioeconomic position or your race but saw that it still happened. Participants could relate to this unfairness through observing friends as well as through their own experiences of feeling that others were better off.
In addition to identifying specific social norms and being aware of related injustice, the participants were also critical of these social norms and of the prejudice they implied. Despite expressing some norm compliance, they were critical of the normative expectations related to, for instance, gender and race, and the impact they had in their everyday life. Participants also expressed criticism of how adults foisted normative expectations on them.
“We have cafeteria hosts at school, who are supposed to clean up after others and stuff like that. And then she, the same teacher, says ‘I understand if the guys don’t want to clean, but you girls have to clean since you’re going to be mothers’ and such things. … And that causes us to be late for class.”
(Girl, School 1)
Although aware and critical of being guided by social norms, participants attempted to navigate these norms and expectations to the best of their ability, as they were also aware of the consequences of not fitting in with the norms.
Negative impact in everyday life
This theme consists of three sub-themes: Experiencing prejudice, Being left outside, and Causing insecurity. Participants were highly aware of the negative impact of the structural norms related to race, gender, and socioeconomics in everyday life when not being able to navigate them. The negative impact experienced could be direct and outspoken as well as more indirect and subtle.
In the sub-theme Experiencing prejudice, participants shared experiences of, for instance, racism, classism, sexism, and homophobia in everyday situations. These experiences included words related to race or sexual identity being used as bad words in general, but also slurs on individuals.
“And it’s the same with race and stuff, that you often hear. Well, not often since we’ve outgrown it by now. Let’s say that if you have dark skin, you are worth less because those with dark skin are a minority. More people are white.”
(Boy, School 6)
Aside from prejudice, most of the negative impacts of social equity factors in everyday life that the participants experienced and discussed were subtle and indirect. This was illustrated by the sub-theme Being left outside, where participants expressed feelings of becoming an outsider if not complying with norms and expectations. One aspect discussed was not having enough money, which could mean not being able to join friends at different activities. Some participants discussed how not being able to join expensive activities could lead to exclusion from the friend group, and to being forgotten and no longer invited by the friends. Not being left outside was discussed as important and something you are willing to make sacrifices to avoid, which one participant expressed like this:
“Like school lunch, maybe there’s a dish that you would have eaten but nobody else wants to eat it. So, they go to McDonald’s or Burger King and you don’t want to sit by yourself in the cafeteria, so you join [them], but you don’t have any money for it. So, you just sit there and skip lunch to be with your friends. And that affects you at school and stuff.”
(Boy, School 3)
Another negative effect, in everyday life, of structures relating to socioeconomics, race, and gender is described in the sub-theme Causing insecurity. Constant comparison with peers contributed to feelings of insecurity and trying to fit in with the norms was also seen as a result of insecurity. Breaking norms, or the risk of others perceiving that you are not fitting in with the expectations related to race, gender, and socioeconomics, is described as scary.
“Or sexuality, many use ‘gay’ as a slur and people might, people feel bad because of that and don’t dare come out. You don’t want to stand out from the crowd, because there will always be someone judging you and commenting on it.”
(Boy, School 4)
The participants shared experiences of negative impacts related to inequities and stated that avoiding these negative impacts by navigating them was not always possible. Many of the experiences revolved around school and friends, but there were also experiences of negative impacts due to adults, such as school staff or family members.
Importance of family influence
This theme comprises three sub-themes: Family affluence affecting, Dealing with parents’ opinions, and Feeling pressure for a good future. Influence of family was yet another aspect that had to be considered by the participants as they navigated social norms. Family and parents had a big influence on the participants’ experiences related to race, gender, and socioeconomics, both in the sense that parental background was experienced as inherited and because the opinions and values of parents affected the participants.
The sub-theme Family affluence affecting concerns having families both with high affluence and low affluence. The level of family affluence was perceived relative to the affluence of friends or school mates, rather than to a larger societal context. Comparing your own family with the family of friends was described as causing stress.
Girl 1: “Self-baiting… We thought about..., what did we think about?”
Girl 2: “Yeah, for example, ‘my friend has a really big house that I don’t have’ or ‘my friend’s mom has a really nice new car, my mom doesn’t have that’.”
(School 6)
Family socioeconomic background was considered directly related to the socioeconomic status of the individual. Participants discussed how coming from a poor background could lead to mental illness and problems in the future. Certain factors, such as having divorced parents, were perceived as increasing the risk of financial problems and related effects.
In the sub-theme Dealing with parents’ opinions, participants discussed how they dealt with parents having different opinions or values than themselves. These differences were described as depending both on background and on prejudice about other groups or people. The “background” of parents was discussed as influencing how strict parents were in their approach to their children. “Background” was understood to relate to the national, ethnical, and religious background of parents, often talked about and labeled as “different background” when discussing parents not born in Sweden and/or religious parents. Parents could also voice prejudice, which was discussed as influencing younger siblings and difficult to deal with. One participant reflected on how these opinions affected their family reputation in a negative way:
“My dad can also, not like that, but my dad can also be a bit condescending to people from other countries, like Muslims, and my little brother passes this on. And that makes us look worse…”
(Girl, School 6)
The sub-theme Feeling pressure for a good future consists of feelings and perceptions of stress from family, to reach what is seen as a “good” future. Different future occupations are labeled with different status, as expressed by some participants:
Boy 1: “You have to think about your future.”
Boy 2:” I don’t think anyone here wants to work at Lidl [a discount supermarket].”
Boy 3: “Working at Lidl is better than cleaning.”
Boy 2: “Those who clean make more money than those working at Lidl.”
(School 1)
Having the “right” education or the “right” job was seen as desirable, the “right” job being understood as a career requiring higher education or with a high salary in order to be of high status. Participants discussed experiences of feeling the need to carry on the family reputation and be able to take care of your parents in the future. A worry about the future was shared between the participants and much of this worry was discussed as related to parental pressure to do well in school in order reach a status position in the future.