Participants characteristics
We interviewed 32 Parents of victim and 14 parents of non-victim and 71 community members. Among the group of parents of victim, the most common family size was with four children and few were two children. The group of non-victim parents twelve families had two children each and two of them had four children. In the group of parents of victim, most families had male as main earner while in few families both male and female were earner. Most of the mothers of victim had no formal education while some of them had primary level education. Most of the mothers of non-victim had a completed graduation degree and some of them had secondary level education. Among the parents of victim were daily earner. The parents of non-victim were mostly service holder and only father and was earning and mother was house wife. In the case of few of parent of non-victims’ parents both of them earned. Most of the victim’s families had monthly earning 7000–10000 taka and few of them earned more than 10000 taka per month. Among the non-victim’s family, most of them earned 16000–20000 taka per month while none of them earned below 10000 taka.
In this section presents the parental and community perspectives about victimization, perpetration, vulnerabilities and risk, and protection. Participants in the study were either parents of the victims or members of the community where the sexual harassment took place. Participants from both groups expressed their reasoned views, pointing out the factors contributing to the victimization process.
Theme | Subtheme | Participant views |
Victimization | Victim’s physical incapability | “In our country, girls with disabilities are sexually harassed. Because they are physically disabled. If someone tries to harass them, they can't stop. People with speech impediments cannot tell the truth, nor can they name who sexually harassed them. As a result, the perpetrator always gets a chance to torture the disabled girl. The disabled girl can be easily brought under control. As a result, young girls are most at risk of being abused.” Community member, teacher |
| Disable girl’s misunderstanding about inappropriate behavior | “I spoke to my daughter about the incident she faced. Talking to her I realized that she does not understand any inappropriate act by anyone. When I asked her what she did when the person touched her sensitive body part. She replied that she was listening to his gossiping and did nothing."- Parent of victim |
| No reporting | “One perpetrator abuses several times because he knows that the girl will not report it. And for a girl with intellectual disability cannot report. These are the reasons why an abuser gets opportunity to harass girls with disability.” Community member, Service holder |
| Being poor and Less social power | “We are poor and cannot protest my daughter's abuse. If we don't earn one day, we can't support our family. There is nothing we can do if someone abuses our daughter unfairly. Who to complain to? People will tell us that we cannot take care of our daughter. They will blame us because it is easy to question a poor and weak family.” Parent of victim |
| Mother’s unawareness and low level of education | “Parents need to be more aware to protect their children from sexual abuse. If the mother is not aware of the daughter and cannot provide security to the daughter, then in most cases, abuse takes place. Again, if the mother is less educated and does not understand the issues of the daughter being abused, then the fate of the daughter will be bad. There are some bad people around who are looking for opportunities to abuse. A girl with a disability will not understand and will accept a loss. So, parents need to be very aware.” Communality member, religious leader |
| Psychological barrier accessing legal aid | “Who would I go to if my daughter was sexually abused? What can the people of the area say? Even if the people of the area give humanitarian support, they will not come with me against the offenders. So how do I fight alone? Will there be any support for me if I go for legal help? Those who have money get favor from the law, they will not help me. So, I think I will not get justice.” Parent of victim |
Perpetration | Being powerful economically and politically | “I reported to the ward counselor about my daughter’s abuse but he could only arrange a meeting with them. They gave some money. That’s all! The same person will harass girls again because nobody will punish him. They are rich. His father is a big contractor of road construction in this area. Also, he is in a position of a political party.” Parent of victim |
| Offender’s opportunity of negotiation after abuse | “The person who abused my daughter tried to abuse other girls too. His father gave us 10 thousand taka as compensation. No other punishment was ordered for him. So, he thought no one could punish him if he abused more because he could negotiate with the victim. He always tries to abuse other girls.”-Parent of victim |
| Inappropriate touch shown as permissive care | “All our relatives love and care for my daughter. My nephew who is older than my daughter sometimes still holds her as a child. I politely forbade him not to treat her like that because my daughter is not a toddler. My nephew replied that he is her brother and he takes care of her.” - Parent of victim |
Vulnerabilities and risks | Poor living arrangement | “Our house is broken and there is no main door. Neighbors come and go without permission. We need gentle permission to enter a home that we do not have. If we had a main gate, we would keep the door closed and open it when someone knocked. All the good and bad neighbors come whether I am at home or outside. I don’t know everyone’s motives. I don't know if any of my neighbors abuse my daughter because my daughter is mentally handicapped.” -Parent of victim |
| No living with biological parents | “My husband and I used to stay in Dhaka for work and my daughter stayed with my mother in this city. We couldn't take her with us because we had no one to take care of her while we were at work. So, we kept her with my mother. But my mother was old and could not take care of her properly. The abuser took this opportunity and attempted several times for rape. But somehow she was saved.” Parent of victim |
Protection | Growing empathy | “If I have a disabled child in my family, I need to show empathy for the child. To be sympathetic to the child is equally important for all the members of the family. The issue of empathy should start with the family. In this way we ourselves will be able to protect disabled adolescent girls.” Community member, teacher |
| Family members connectedness | “Me and my family all care for my disabled girl. We know she may not be able to do anything physically but she has emotions. She expects we should give her equal importance. If we don’t always keep her among us and she will separate himself. Then her tendency will be to stay out of the house most of the time. In this case, there is a possibility of sexual harassment by other people.”-Parent of non-victim |
| Social support | We all have to play a responsible role. We need to know what the risks are for children with disabilities, especially girls. Whenever we see a child with a disability at risk, we have to take action immediately. -Community member, social worker |
Theme 1: Victimization
This section explored parents and community views about the reasons for which a disable girl becomes victim to sexual abuse. Both parents and the community agreed that girls with disability are easy victims to sexual abuse.
Parents and community members agreed that disabled adolescent girls are more likely to experience sexual abuse than disabled boys. Most parents consider poverty and poor social power are the key factors that influence a perpetrator to abuse a disable girl. Some parents of victim explained that a poor family is incapable to protest any assault due to their economic weakness and having less social power. Most of the community members argued that a poor family is often unaware of the protection of a girls with disability. These issues often contribute to the victimization process. Community members also mentioned maternal unconsciousness and low level of education as important factor for victimization.
Both community and family members perceived that sexual victimization happens because of the physical disability of the victim. Community members noted that the victim herself cannot sense the possible risk of abuse. In some cases, the victim also cannot figure out any unwanted actions by a perpetrator. Majority of the parents of both victim and non-victim think Physical disability is one of the significant risk increasers for sexual abuse to an adolescent with disabilities. They cannot defend or report when someone violates their personal boundaries. Parents of victims said in some cases, disable girl cannot tell who abused her. In a question that who are the perpetrators for a disable adolescent girl, a number of parents of both victim and non-victims and community participants think relatives especially, cousin and brother in law abuse a disable girl. Community members further added that sometimes neighbors and family friends abuse a disable girl.
Community participants said that many parents especially from low income group have psychological barrier accessing legal aid. They fear being close to legal activities and the institution such as the court and police station. Also, the they are captured with fear of social stigma. This psychological barrier is widely known across community and a perpetrator understands this barrier. Community added that poor people’s limitation of accessing legal aid encourages a perpetrator to abuse disable girl.
Theme 2: Perpetration
In this section, we explored views about the forms of perpetration occurs to a disable adolescent girl. Community members think abuse to a disable girl is easy because the offender is from the close circle including relatives or neighbor mostly. They further added that the occurrence of inappropriate touch is shown as permissive care to a disable child. Parents and the community both think disable girl’s mis-understanding about inappropriate behavior is also contribute to the perpetration attempt of an abuser. Community members think that disable girl’s inability to report the incident is another encouraging point for the perpetrator to abuse. Few community members mentioned that widespread community sense of caring and showing sympathy to a disable child is also a form of abuse. Parents narrated that perpetration is often influenced by the opportunity of negotiation after the abuse. They further explained that both relative and non-relative perpetrators try to normalize the offence of sexual abuse by paying compensation to the victim’s family after the incidence. One of the mothers shared her experience about how her daughter’s abuse incidence was normalized with money as compensation, saying,
“My eldest daughter was mentally handicapped. She was raped by a young man, the son of a local political leader, when she was 14 years old. We went to the ward councilor for arbitration. But the trial ends with the decision to pay us 10,000 taka as criminal compensation. "If my daughter needs more money for her treatment, they would pay and the offender should be forgiven. I had no one to ask for justice. I just cried inside myself helplessly." IDI-7, parent of a victim.
Both parents and community members reported that a caregiver sometimes abuse the girl. In case of working parents, the disable girls are left to a relative who have time for taking care of.
A member of the community described his experience of abuse, saying,
“My niece was disabled on her feet. He could not walk alone. Her father was a day laborer and her mother were a housemaid. They kept their daughter with her aunt (her uncle's wife) during work. We didn't even think that she would abuse girls as an aunt. My niece was then 16 years old so taking care of everything like bathing, dressing, feeding was not easy. One day her aunt beat her and took her clothes off so she obeys her. When her mother returned from work, she reported the incident. The parents had nothing to do with it. " IDI-9, Community member
One father of a victim described how his son-in-law abused his young daughter because she was physically disabled saying,
“My son-in-law used to come and stay in our house often. He would bring sweets for my little girl and spend time playing with her. I trusted him because he was close to us. Since, I am busy with work, and my wife also work outside so we cannot take care of my daughter every hour. I never thought that he would be involved in such a heinous act as a close relative. But he raped her and fled.” IDI 12, Parent of a victim.
Theme 3: Vulnerabilities and risks
This section explored the views and opinions of parents and community about the vulnerabilities and possible risks of disable adolescent girls.
A number of parents of both victim and non-victim and community members said that poor living arrangement creates greater vulnerabilities of sexual abuse to a disable adolescent girl. Participants explained poor living arrangement that included not having a house structure that provide privacy, comfort and protection. A school teacher explained how disabled girls from a poor family are more likely to be sexually abused saying,
"We know a disabled adolescent girl from a solvent family in our area. The girl is only cared for by her parents. Outsiders cannot meet her. On the other hand, everyone shows care for a disabled girl from a poor family. Anyone who has contact with his parents can get home. According to the report by her parent, the neighbor tortured her (attempted rape) when she was 17 years of age. So, he was pretending to be caring but actually he was creating space to abuse. " IDI -14, Community member, school teacher.
Community members feel disabled girls of working parents are more vulnerable to sexual abuse. Parents who work are out of the house from morning to afternoon every day. These long hours of parental absence create vulnerability for a disabled girl. Not being with a biological parent is another factor that creates vulnerability for a disabled girl. Poor security in the family and community was also cited by community members as a factor in creating vulnerability. A perpetrator tries to abuse a disabled girl when he finds her separated from her family members. When a disabled girl is isolated, it becomes easier for an abuser to approach her.
One parent of a victim described the difficulty of caring for and protecting a child with a disability, saying, “It is a burden to always take care of a girl. My daughter is a 15 years old child. I have problems especially when she wants to go to the toilet and take a bath. I can't handle all the cleaning activities of her.” IDI 12, Parent of a disable adolescent girl.
Theme 4: Protection
This section outlines some important areas that communities and parents think should be considered to ensure the protection of adolescent girls with disabilities.
Most parents and community members have voiced the need for increased empathy among family, relatives and community members. Adolescent girls with disabilities are bounded by these three levels. Parents feel that a disabled child should be considered as their child and a boy as his sister. Community members also emphasize on understanding the emotions and grievances of a disabled girl. The parent said that others should think of the victim’s family when their child is sexually assaulted. Asked how to foster this empathy in people, community members said parents should teach their children to be kind and helpful to others. Parental groups opined that older people show empathy towards disabled girls so that juniors will learn how to deal with disabled children.
A family member's connectedness to a child with a disability is another key to ensuring protection against sexual abuse recommended by community members. Both parents and community members cited their social support as protecting children with disabilities from abuse. Participants answered questions about the type of social support needed for children with disabilities, saying that support can be providing attention and care when needed. Parents believe that social support helps children with disabilities feel comfortable, joyful and confident outside the home.