These findings provide a unique exploration of couples' experiences of being recontacted and their interest in performing genetic testing several years (1–5 years) after TOP. The results showed that these parents were looking for a sense of closure to finalize the mourning process. Furthermore, they want to help others to avoid facing the same situation. They described the effort to participate as little, something small for a greater good. For these reasons, all the interviewees reported that their decision to participate was easily taken.
Both men and women participated in this study, in total ten couples and three mothers were interviewed. Significantly, almost half of the eligible participants came back on consultation and chose for further genetic testing not knowing if a molecular genetic diagnosis would be obtained. These participants did not express negative feelings about being recontacted despite the unexpectedness of the contact and the potential past difficulties of coping with a TOP. Previous studies also confirmed mainly positive attitudes towards recontacting (17–21,26). However, the number of qualitative studies exploring in depth the experience of being recontacted is scarce. Sexton et al. (19) interviewed three couples and three mothers who lost a child due to a mitochondrial disorder, in contrast to this study they were only recontacted after a confirmed molecular genetic diagnosis. These parents confirmed also a positive attitude even though this was unexpected and many years after the death of their child. They were pleased that research for mitochondrial disorders was still continuing, hoping it would benefit other affected families (19). Another qualitative study on recontacting concluded that recontacting was considered as desirable and a sign of good quality care after interviewing 41 individuals affected by different genetic conditions (21).
All participants agreed that the initiative of recontacting should be taken by the medical team. This finding corresponds with a quantitative study in which almost 90% of the participants agreed that taking initiative is the responsibility of the clinical geneticist (18). On this basic level, our findings were congruent. However, our in-depth data explored the reasoning behind these statements, whereas the colleagues only surveyed the opinions (18). In current research, the interviewees described thus different reasons why initiative would be completely out of their comfort zone (e.g.: wait-and-see attitude, unawareness of technical medical evolution, burden of reproductive loss). Significantly, the idea that they did not have to take initiative and 'hunt' for new information created a piece of mind. The couples preferred not to be occupied with those things since coping with a TOP was already a significant burden.
Currently, recontacting is not a standardized practice in Europe (13). In 2019 the ESHG wrote recommendations on recontacting patients in clinical genetics services, however no specific guidelines on how to recontact exist (12). In this study, we chose to send first a standardized letter and afterwards an invitation by phone to come to the consultation due to the sensitivity of the past of these couples. This manner of being recontacted was described as a sensitive approach, receiving the letter before a phone call was considered as a smooth preparation. For the majority a direct phone call would have felt inappropriate and overwhelming. This finding provides a clear and important patient perspective on how to recontact couples. However, we have to acknowledge that this sensitive approach might not be feasible in larger patient cohorts.
Though an overall positive feeling concerning recontacting, different ambivalent feelings were described as a first reaction. Some couples were immediately enthusiast whereas others were initially concerned and overwhelmed. However, the women who described those feelings also recognized that after reading the letter a couple of times, they were reassured and understood why they were recontacted. It has been mentioned that a new contact might provoke complex psychological responses linked to a past experience (21). Specifically in couples that terminated a desired pregnancy for medical reasons it might trigger painful memories. Understanding this reproductive trauma, the team hypothesized that couples would possibly avoid coming back to the hospital. Therefore, we explored their experience of coming back to the UZ Brussel. The couples acknowledged that it brought up emotions and memories, but it was worth the effort. Furthermore, they explained that they are now in a different situation. Though not everybody mentioned it, for some couples the timing of recontacting played an important role. This finding was also reported by two mothers of deceased children in another study (19). They would not appreciate being recontacted within a year after their child's death, since new genetic information might have been an additional difficulty in their grieving process. For this reason, caution is needed when recontacting parents, especially because they might be in different stages of their grieving processes.
Almost half of the eligible participants came back to the consultation and chose to do further testing, despite that their trajectory on genetics had finished. This highlights an important finding, namely that these couples were still interested and want to invest in genetic testing. Both men and women described the same motivations. However, three men explicitly mentioned they were not longer looking for a diagnosis. They were present at the consultation to support their partner. A difference is that all women and some men described, as one of the major motivators to perform genetic testing, was to find a diagnosis and thus an explanation for the question: why did this happen to us? The journey of undergoing numerous genetic and non-genetic tests has been termed as a 'diagnostic odyssey' (26) and has mainly been described in children with unidentified rare disorders (27). This odyssey has been described by parents living with a child with an undiagnosed condition as a high burden accompanied with feelings such as distress, frustration and uncertainty (28). The benefits of a molecular genetic diagnosis and thus the end of the diagnostic odyssey are various (27) amongst which psychological advances (28,29). Though this odyssey has been mainly described in children with a neurodevelopmental disorder, the results of this study suggest that the idea of a diagnostic odyssey can be extended to the prenatal context. These couples report still being interested in finding a diagnosis to close the past and to open perspective for the future. Further research is needed to explore this odyssey in a prenatal context and what are the psychosocial effects of ending the genetic diagnostic odyssey. Furthermore, it might be interesting to explore the decision making process towards a TOP between couples with and without a molecular diagnosis.
4.1. Limitations
An important limitation of this study is that we only have partial information concerning the non-participating couples and this does not allow us to draw conclusions on their reasoning for not participating. It can be hypothesized that couples are no longer searching for a diagnosis or do not want to return to UZ Brussel. Specifically in this population, it might also be the case they do not want to re-experience the past. Reasons mentioned by phone were no interest, no longer a desire for children, divorced and emotional reasons. However, the opinion of these couples is important to further shape the debate on recontacting in order to apply it appropriately into the clinical context.
4.2. Future research
The present findings also have implications for future research. More studies in different patient groups are needed to further understand parents' experiences of recontacting in general, but also concerning the approach and the initiative. It is also important to explore parents' reasons to decline participation since their opinions can play a significant role in the debate of recontacting. More broadly, experiences of the diagnostic odyssey in a prenatal context could be further explored. Currently, couples are still terminating pregnancies without having a molecular genetic diagnosis and how this would influence their (future) family planning is largely unknown.
4.3. Conclusion
To our current knowledge, this is the first study which examines in depth the experience of being recontacted in couples who have had TOP for congenital malformations. Feelings concerning recontacting were positive, though it triggered complex psychological responses. Parents were still seeking answers for themselves and to help others. Knowledge about the experience of recontacting and the motivations of couples to proceed to genetic testing several years after a TOP, is an important aspect of the genetic counselling process especially with the rapid evolution of genetic knowledge. This study provides a clear parental perspective on recontacting and may offer guidance in debates on this topic. However, more research is needed to explore the experience of recontacting for other medical indications.