In total, 70 of the 327 (21,4 %) first person narratives shared by females discussed some form of SGBV while 42 of the 159 (26,4%) male stories included dialogue on some form of SGBV. Demographics of study participants are presented in Table 1.
Table 1. Characteristics of participants who shared stories about SGBV
Characteristics
|
Female
No (%)
|
Male
No (%)
|
Gender
|
70 (21,4%)
|
42 (26,4%)
|
Subgroup
|
Married Syrian girls
|
30 (42,9)
|
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Unmarried Syrian girls
|
31 (44,3)
|
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|
Syrian mothers
|
9 (12,9)
|
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|
Syrian fathers
|
|
11 (26,2)
|
Married Syrian,
Palestinian and
Lebanese men
|
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|
12 (28,6)
|
Unmarried Syrian,
Palestinian and
Lebanese men
|
------------------
|
16 (38,1)
|
Community leaders
|
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|
3 (7,1)
|
Age
|
13-17
|
48 (68,6)
|
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|
18-24
|
15 (21,4)
|
9 (21,4)
|
25-34
|
4 (5,7)
|
21 (50)
|
35-44
|
3 (4,3)
|
6 (14,3)
|
> 45
|
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|
6 (14,3)
|
Marital status
|
Married
|
28 (40,0)
|
25 (59,5)
|
Single
|
30 (42,9)
|
17 (40,5)
|
Divorced/separated
|
11 (15,7)
|
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|
Prefer not to say
|
1 (1,4)
|
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|
Religion
|
Sunni
|
69 (98,6)
|
27 (64,3)
|
Shia
|
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|
3 (7,1)
|
Other
|
1 (1,4)
|
12 (28,6)
|
Home region
|
Lebanon
|
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|
21 (50,0)
|
Homs
|
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|
6 (14,3)
|
Damascus
|
11 (15,7)
|
6 (14,3)
|
Aleppo
|
13 (18,6)
|
1 (2,4)
|
Hama
|
10 (14,3)
|
1 (2,4)
|
Idlib
|
6 (8,6)
|
1 (2,4)
|
Other
|
30 (42,8)
|
6 (14,2)
|
Location in Lebanon
|
Beqaa
|
37 (52,9)
|
20 (47,6)
|
Greater Beirut area
|
22 (31,4)
|
17 (40,5)
|
Tripoli
|
11 (15,7)
|
5 (11,9)
|
Time in Lebanon (years)
|
< 1 year
|
8 (11,4)
|
1 (2,4)
|
1–3
|
18 (25,7)
|
5 (12,0)
|
3–5
|
37 (52,9)
|
11 (26,1)
|
5–7
|
2 (2,9)
|
2 (4,7)
|
> 7 years
|
5 (7,1)
|
23 (54,8)
|
n, number of shared stories.
Qualitative Data Analysis
Two main themes around SGBV among Syrian refugee women and girls in Lebanon were highlighted in this analysis: 1. Continuum of SGBV risks in the public and private spheres; 2. Gendered differences and perspectives around SGBV.
Theme 1: Continuum of SGBV risks for Syrian women and girls in Lebanon
Different threats and experiences of SGBV in both the private and public spheres were evident for Syrian women and girls in a continuum across the adolescent and early adult years. By private sphere, we refer to acts of violence that occur in the home, typically behind closed doors and often perpetrated by either a family member, friend, or someone else known to the woman or girl. By public sphere, we refer to those acts of SGBV that occur outside the home, in public areas such as schools, streets, shopping areas, parks, etc., and more likely involving an unknown perpetrator. The continuum described in our analysis refers to life stages from unmarried adolescent girls living in the family home, to child brides living with her husband and/or parents-in-law, and in some cases to being divorced or separated after a marriage ends. From this chronological perspective, early SGBV risks refer to those primarily affecting unmarried adolescent girls, while later SGBV risks refer to those experienced more so after being married and leaving the family home.
As adolescents, girls are perceived to be at high risk of sexual harassment and sexual violence in their communities. In an effort to protect them from these public sphere threats and to protect their honor, some parents choose to marry their daughters earlier than they perhaps would have under different circumstances. Child marriage is itself a form of SGBV but the risks are further compounded by the IPV that many girls experience after they are married. In addition to IPV within their marriages, some girls also describe DV by their husbands’ relatives and in a few cases girls were subjected to abuse after they fled violent relationships and returned to their parents’ home.
a. Public SGBV risks for women and girls: harassment and assault
Several forms of SGBV were reported by women and girls as part of their experiences in the public sphere. A majority of the first-person female narratives about SGBV referred to various forms of harassment directed towards women and girls in public spaces, and street harassment was often mentioned as the reason why girls’ mobility was forcibly limited. Harassment was most commonly reported by girls while travelling to and from school as well as in school, creating a sense of unease and fear among some participants. Fear of harassment and heightened concerns around safety for girls led some parents to engage in negative coping mechanisms in an attempt to protect them. For instance, an unmarried Syrian girl based in Tripoli (age 18-24) reported that she was not allowed to attend school.
“… When our family moved to Lebanon, I lived in a very unsafe neighborhood, so I was not allowed to leave the house to attend school, fearing that the Lebanese men would take sexual advantage of me or subject me to verbal violence and threats. Moreover, my sister and I are not allowed to stay at home by ourselves because our parents fear that someone might come in and harass us.”
Some participants described being bullied and harassed not only by boys, but also by teachers and school officials. An unmarried Syrian girl living in Beirut (age 13-17) reported being harassed by her teacher.
“...One time in class the teacher would ask me to sit right in between two guys, and I would ask him whether he would be ok with his wife sitting in between my father and uncle and he would say “no”. I told him that he has tomove me from between the two boys or I would go home, and he would ask me to go home. The teacher kept going on with his hitting and making me sit between guys and I told him that if my father was here he would have never treated me like that…”
Living in ITSs or integrated into the host community, many respondents felt unsafe due to experiences and / or perceived threats of sexual harassment and sexual assault on the streets. One Syrian mother based in Beqaa (age 25-34) shared her personal story about being sexually harassed by a male driver while she was walking with her daughter, and discussed concerns for her daughter’s safety in Lebanon.
“My daughter and I were going to the pharmacy once, when a man in a car started following us and honking. My daughter and I ignored him completely, so he stopped the car and opened the window, only to find him naked in the car. I was very scared for my daughter. He was a disgusting man and what he did was even more disgusting. If the man had done this while she was alone, the man could have kidnapped her. I advise every girl to leave the house with an adult, someone who can protect her.”
Some female respondents reported being followed and verbally harassed on the streets by passing drivers or while commuting on public transportation. A 22-year old married Syrian girl from Beirut talked about her experiences of harassment and commented that all women were at risk of harassment.
“When I go to Beirut, the taxi drivers would harass and catcall any women passing by. Regardless if the woman was with her child, married, or pregnant. Some of them would say some very dirty words. When she is walking with a man, they wouldn’t dare to say anything. But they will harass a woman walking alone a lot.”
One married 18-year-old Syrian girl, who had been in Beqaa for 5 years ago reported being sexually assaulted in the public sphere and discussed misconception and the disrespect she faces as a refugee girl in Lebanon.
“… I worked in a chicken restaurant, they disrespected me and assaulted me. The owner was paralyzed and harassed me sexually, he always tried to get close to me. He was old. They think that the Syrian girl has no dignity. I felt really offended and we argued a lot. He gave me a wrong idea of the Lebanese men, they just want us sexually, they think that we sell our dignity for cheap.”
An unmarried 13-year old Syrian girl living in Beqaa blamed herself for being sexually assaulted on the street and felt that she could not tell her parents about the incident.
“After some time alone, the boy cornered me in a high place, and then he started holding my hand, touching me in places, and getting his body close to mine. He then wanted to take me somewhere, but I refused, so I wanted to break free but he wouldn’tlet me. He kept pulling me towards him, making our bodies collide and touch. After freeing myself from his grip, I ran home and I have not been outside the house since. I know that it is my fault and I am responsible for such action. I cannot tell my parents about this because they will make a big deal out of this. They will blame us and get away with it because we are Syrians. I advise every girl to never play with boys and to never leave the house by herself or without an adult.”
One married Syrian father living in Beqaa valley (age 25-34) shared a story about a Syrian refugee girl who had lost all her family back in Syria and needed to work to finance herself in Lebanon where she has been sexually assaulted at her workplace.
“… She had to work here to support herself so she started by selling flowers. As the days
passed she started staying out late for her job. One day, a group of men promised her money if she’d walk with them. They assaulted and raped her.From that day on, the barrier that was once there in her mind was gone so she started working as a prostitute. The girl is a minor, she is 16 years old.”
Moreover, given the dire financial situation, some women and girls worked in order to support their family’s finances. The employment market in Lebanon, however, often restricts women's labor opportunities to domestic house work, posing an increased risk of SGBV due to the lack of accountability and reporting mechanisms. Some female respondents reported unwanted sexual advances by their supervisors and in some cases, employers were benefiting from the financial dependency of female employees. For instance, one married Syrian man living in Beqaa (age 25-34) described how an 18-year old girl was harassed by her employers.
“I know a girl who came to Lebanon with her husband. While they were entering Lebanon, they took her husband on the border. So, she had to work in houses here. Some people used to pay her and others didn’t. She has a little boywho she needs to secure food for. Some people used to harass her while working. So, she never returned to these people’s houses. She is only working for the sake of her son. And she doesn’t know what to do.”
b. Private SGBV risks: child, early and forced marriage
SGBV risks for Syrian refugee girls were described as one of the main drivers for parents to marry their daughters early, since marriage and having a husband were perceived as protective against SGBV. One 16-year-old married Syrian girl in Beqaa was married at the age of 14 as a protection measure due to safety concerns.
“… I got married because my parents feared for my safety. There were a lot of
kidnapping cases happening in our village. … I have marital problems as well. I advise parents to rejecttheidea of early marriage. It is not right. The girl should be allowed to live through her whole childhood. I will not approve for any of my daughters to get married at an early age; especially after this experience that I am going through.”
This Syrian girl in Beqaa chose to get married at the age of 14 and gave up education due to a fear of being harassed and assaulted.
“When I was 14 years old, I chose to get married. This was due to my former school
principal; he used to harass the students and teachers. He constantly harassed them. After a while, he started to harass me. Therefore, I hated school, and I accepted to get married to the first man who proposed to marry me. I was relieved after I got married. I was relieved from men’sharassment. I preferred to get married. Now, I am very comfortable. I hated being harassed. I saw how the teachersharassed the girls at school. … More than one girl from my school decided to get married. Even though I would have preferred to continue my education, I was compelled to marry in order to get rid of the harassment.”
One Syrian girl who was displaced with her parents to Beirut at the age of 12 was forced into marriage to protect her from further harassment after being targeted by a man in the community.
“…In Lebanon, I was sexually harassed from an old aged man. When my parents knew,
they forced me to get married. Now, I have a child, and I am pregnant. I am unhappy.”
Early, child and forced marriage is a form of SGBV because it forces girls to have sex before they are old enough to consent and before their bodies are physically mature. In some cases, the outcomes are extreme as in this example shared by a married Lebanese man in Beirut (age 45-54).
“...My daughter is only 9 or 10 years old. The employer sees my daughter,and he asks to either marry her or to buy her. I accept since I don’t have any other solution, but my wife starts shouting and crying. We got a clerk and married the employer to our child, and he took her as his wife…Our daughter died the next day from an extensive hemorrhage that was the result of brutal intercourse. He is a monster. Our child died. This is a true and very sad story. I hope, by documenting and sharing this story, to spread awareness to the public.”
c. Additional private SGBV risks: intimate partner violence and domestic violence within marriages
In addition to experiencing early marriage as a form of SGBV, married Syrian girls were sometimes exposed to violence in their homes after being married at a young age. In the private sphere, intimate partner violence (IPV) against women and girls in their own homes was commonly reported. Other girls experienced domestic violence (DV) perpetrated by other family members, while a few girls were sexually exploited by their parents, often under the guise of marriage. IPV was a prominent form of SGBV discussed by respondents in this analysis. Much of the narratives around IPV were linked to a power differential since the bride was a child/minor and/or was forced into a marriage. For instance, one 15-year old married Syrian girl (age 13-17) in Beqaa reported on the abuse she experienced by her husband.
“…I got married to another man, and my husband abuses me. I have two daughters now. I wouldn’t have gotten married, if I knew what I was going to go through. I am not happy…I am 15 years only. I lost my life. I advise girls not get married before the age of 20.”
This Syrian girl located in Tripoli (age 18-24) reported being married at the age of 18 and described her experiences of violence.
“My husband has anger issues, and he rarely works. I used to have a job, but he prohibited me from working. When he gets mad, he starts swearing at me and beating me. I live with my parents-in-law. I like living with his parents because I don’t like my husband.”
Overall, physical violence perpetrated by husbands was the most commonly reported form of IPV. A Syrian girl based in Tripoli (age 13-17) reported physical abuse by her husband during their brief marriage.
“I was 15 years old when I got married. I didn’t get engaged, and I didn’t doa wedding. We were married in four days only. Problems started immediately. I lived with him for 20 days only. He used to beat me, he wanted to send me to Turkey, he wanted me to work as a dancer, and he wanted to take me away from my parents. One day, I ran away from him. People I know helped me, to get from where he lived to my parent’s village. Then, my parents helped me to get a divorce.”
Another Syrian girl from Beqaa (age 18-24) was forced into marriage at the age of 16 and then experienced IPV from her husband.
“At first, I refused then my parents encouraged me. I didn’t love my husband. He prohibited me from visiting my parents, and he beat me. At first, we lived with his parents then his father kicked us out. We moved a lot. My parents didn’t stand by my side. I suffered a lot. I tried to kill myself.”
This Syrian girl (age 13-17) in Tripoli chose to marry her husband; at first the marriage was happy but then the girl experienced IPV when she was beaten by her husband and DV when she was beaten by her brother- in-law.
“…My husband and my brother-in-law started to beat me. I started to yell, so our neighbor came to help me. But they kept on beating me. My mom picked me up and took me to the doctor. We got a report, and we hired a lawyer to get my son back. Now, my son is with me, and I returned to my parent’s house waiting to get divorced.”
Another married Syrian girl in Beqaa (age 13-17) was similarly exposed to both IPV and DV after being pressured into marriage.
“One of my father’srelatives wanted to marry me. At first, I didn’t accept, but then they convinced me that he is a good man, and I accepted. We fought constantly. Then I fought with his parents. My husband, his mother, and his uncle beat me. Even their guests would beat me. I suffered a lot when I lived with them. I neither ate nor drank anything, and I always stayed alone.”
d. SGBV risks after leaving unsafe marriages: domestic violence and sexual exploitation
Despite finding themselves in unsafe and unhealthy marriages, some Syrian girls continued to face violence and abuse even as they sought divorces and attempted to flee abusive situations. Due to traditional values, social stigma and taboo surrounding divorce, this violence was often
perpetrated by the husband’s and / or the girl’s family and there was a perception that the girls
were blamed for their unsuccessful marriages. For instance, one married Syrian girl in Beqaa (age 13-17) was maltreated by her parents after fleeing her abusive husband.
“They [husband and his family] would yell at me and insult me all the time. I stayed there for 20 days, and I couldn’t take it anymore. I returned to my parents’ house, and they told me that everything will be okay after my husband and I reconcile. When I told them I do not wish to reconcile things with my husband, they started to beat me as well. They took me to a clerk (Sheikh) to check if I was possessed or something. I suffered at my parents’ house and at my parents-in-law’s house. I cried all the time.”
As a result of the dire economic need, some girls were sexually exploited by their parents under the guise of marriages. For instance, this Syrian father (age 25-34) from Beqaa shared a story about a Syrian family that was displaced to Lebanon with their 12-year old daughter.
“The father marriedhis daughter to a Lebanese man. This man got married to her because he wanted to have fun. After a while, he divorced her. Her parents married her to a Syrian man. Her father has married her seven times, and he would increase her dowry every time; he is benefiting from her dowry. This girl is younger than 18 years old, and she doesn’t know what is going on. Her story is known all over the Syrian camps.”
As a result of being refused by relatives after a divorce due to shame and dishonor, some girls turned to commercial sex work to support themselves. One Lebanese man in Beqaa (age 25-34) shared a story about a 17-year old Syrian girl who tried to return to her parent’s home after being physically abused by her husband.
“They got her married to a Lebanese guy. After a while of their marriage, which lasted less than a month (25 days), the guy and his family started hitting her, she ran away to her parents’ house, but they did not welcome her because she is a married woman now. However, the neighbors pressured her parents to let her into the house, but after 3 days the girl disappeared. A neighbor they know saw her in Beqaa, but she acted as if she didn’t know or see him. And he finds out that she is working in prostitution; her parents are trying to get her back now.”
Theme 2: Gendered differences discussing SGBV risks
SGBV risks for female Syrian refugees were discussed differently by female and male respondents. For instance, experiences and fears of sexual harassment were mainly reported by women and girls, with 48 of 70 female narratives presenting sexual harassment as the primary form of SGBV in Lebanon. There were no accounts of sexual exploitation shared by women or girls in this study.
This unmarried Syrian girl in Beqaa and her school friends were harassed while waiting for the bus (age 13-17).
“… My friends and I, who are waiting for the bus, are all girls and there were children amongst us as well. During the walk, a car with black tinted windows started following us; every now and then it would shine the front lights and honk. When we reached our camp, the car drove off. My friends and I were terrified.”
Another unmarried Syrian girl in Beqaa (age 13-17) reported how unsafe she felt as a girl in Lebanon due to harassment, comparing her situation in Lebanon to that in Syria.
“…We are living in tents and I cannot go out and walk around. I can’t even smell the fresh air (the fresh air has been prohibited for me). I am not even sad that I cannot go out in the city because there are young men that sit outside and I am scared to go outside because they bother us and I am a girl, I do not want to go out.”
In contrast, only 8 of 42 male respondents discussed sexual harassment against Syrian girls. Instead men were much more likely to talk explicitly about sexual assault (14 out of 42) and sexual exploitation (19 out of 42). For instance, this unmarried Lebanese man from Beirut (age 18-24) reported a story on sexual abuse where one man wanted to marry a Syrian girl, but her father refused.
“The guy started threatening to kill her father if she does not marry him. Every day, a different man would sexually abuse her until the girl, 17 years old by that time, broke down mentally and she started talking to herself, prompting everyone to call her crazy. Furthermore, this man and his group of friends surrounded the house, banning anyone from coming in or out. Her father tried leaving the house once, but they would not let him. The girl contemplated suicide because of what she has suffered.”
One Syrian man (age 25-34) in Beqaa shared a story about a 16-year old girl who was forced into commercial sex work to financially support her family.
“I know a Syrian family that displaced to Lebanon. They have three daughters. When one of their daughters was 16 years old, she was compelled to work in sinful routes due to the family’s circumstances. She got raped, and she worked in prostitution. Now, she is a drug addict, and she is 18 years old.”
In some cases, the dire economic need led to coerced commercial sex work. For instance, a married Syrian man located in Beqaa (age 25-34) shared a story about a 17-year old Syrian girl who was forced into commercial sex work in order to pay for rent:
“They came here after the war. She lived with someone here in this area. He abused her age and bad situation and made her work in prostitution. It started as a secret, but then we found out what was happening with this girl. He is abusing her in return of a little amount of money, let’s say for rent maybe.”
Similarly, a Syrian father in Beqaa (age 25-34) shared a story about Syrian girls who were promised job opportunities but ended up as commercial sex workers.
“I know three girls who came from Damascus. They are students at school; the youngest one is 18 years old to 16-17 years. They are under the age of 20. They came to work at restaurants and cafes, but they used them and took them to prostitution places, for the sake of money. Several girls came, not only one.”
Sexual exploitation in the form of short term, contractual marriages was also discussed as illustrated by this Syrian father from Beqaa (age 35-44).
“… She is getting married for two weeks or a month, and then she’ll get divorced. I asked one of the girls how is she? She told me that she resents herself. She is being exploited. They are continuously getting married, and they are still minors. Even in her few weeks with one of her husbands, she’ll be abused. … I know a girl who has been married 6 times. This is wrong.”