The Gender Roles Development of Parents and Children
Gender roles are a set of behavioral norms corresponding to one’s own gender, acquired through imitation and learning in the process of socialization [24]. Previous studies have shown that androgynous gender roles are the most ideal type, with the best performance in professional achievement, school adaptation level and other life aspects. Undifferentiated individuals tend to have higher anxiety levels, depression and lower self-assessed level of health [25]. After undifferentiated individuals becoming parent will have a direct negative impact on the social adaptation of children [12], meaning that the development status of undifferentiated individuals is worse than that of androgynous individuals. In the family, parents’ gender roles will also affect the construction of children’s gender roles [10]. Children learn male and female gender traits by comparing the differences in behavior directly expressed or unintentionally conveyed by their fathers and mothers. Children in single-parent families are more inclined to learn the gender roles of their main caregivers [26]. Androgynous single fathers have both traditional male traits and easy-going and gentle female traits, while androgynous single mothers are ambitious when they retain female traits [27], and both are more likely to raise androgynous children [28]. For single parents, they often need to play the role of both the father and the mother at the same time, so it is easy to have confusion in cognition and gender role behavior. It also makes children have unclear gender cognition when observing their parents’ behavior, and are prone to form undifferentiated gender roles [29]. Children who grow up in single-parent families may develop elastically in their gender roles, although there may be transmissibility and similarity between generations. Therefore, does the influence of single parents’ gender role on children’s gender role intergenerational? This issue needs further exploration.
The Influencing Factors of Intergenerational Transmission of Parental Child-rearing Gender-role Attitudes
Parental child-rearing gender-role attitudes refer to the degree which parents show gender role stereotypes when raising their children [12, 30]. The parents’ own gender role values often influence the development of children’s gender roles through their parenting attitudes and behaviors, such as activity arrangements, daily routine, interpersonal relationships, learning focus, housework allocation and emotional expression [13]. In Chinese culture, parents expect boys to have a boys’ “appearance” and girls to have a girls’ “appearance”. “Appearance” is the parent’s expectation or demand that their children exhibit gender behaviors consistent with the parents’ values.
Intergenerational transmission refers to the phenomenon that parents’ abilities, characteristics, behaviors and ideas are transmitted to their children. Empirical research shows that intergenerational transmission is shown through the correlation between parents’ and children’s characteristics, and parents’ characteristics are predictive of their children’s corresponding characteristics [15]. Studies on intergenerational transmission in families are mostly related to parenting attitudes, such as attachment [31], discipline behavior [32], corporal punishment [33], gender roles [10], gender awareness, and it was found that there was a correlation in parenting attitudes between the two generations [17]. Individuals generally raise children in the ways that they have observed or experienced, therefore parents who received psychological aggression [34] and physical aggression/corporal punishment [33] in childhood, are more likely to use harsh parenting. Parents who were overprotected in childhood, also adopt the same parenting strategies for their children [35]. As a part of parenting attitudes, parental child-rearing gender-role attitudes may also produce intergenerational transmission.
Although the parents have similar parenting and gender attitudes to the grandparents when they are young [17], there are also maladaptive inconsistent patterns in which parents choose not to repeat the grandparents [36]. In the process of the parents’ upbringing, due to their education and experiences, the books they read, and this era of the gender equality movement, parents’ attitudes may change [37]. Working and living in an increasingly competitive social environment, parents can deeply understand that, in order to raise children with good physical and mental health, and high social adaptability, it is necessary to construct their abilities and values with a more enlightened and equal attitude towards gender roles education [12]. Therefore, parental child-rearing gender-role attitudes of grandparents and parents may not be exactly the same, resulting in different intergenerational transmission types. Thus, this study, when analyzing the intergenerational transmission of parental child-rearing gender-role attitudes, the similarities and differences between grandparents and parents will be further analyzed.
In addition to socio-economic status factors such as the parents’ economic level and education level affecting the intergenerational transmission type, the role of parents’ gender role types and family gender pairs cannot be ignored. Parental child-rearing gender-role attitudes are affected by their own gender role types [12], and the cognition of parents’ gender roles may influence the intergenerational transmission of parental child-rearing gender-role attitudes, which is also a problem worth exploring. Moreover, the difference of gender pairs between parents and children in single-parent families affects the cognition and formation of children’s gender roles [38]. Meanwhile, gender pairs influence the transmission of parental child-rearing gender-role attitudes between two generations. Single parents and children form same-sex dyads and opposite-sex dyads. Taking father-daughter single-parent families as an example of opposite-sex dyads, the parental child-rearing gender-role attitudes received in father’s childhood, may no longer be applicable to cultivate daughters. And the gender difference of parent and child urges parents to adjust the internalized parental child-rearing gender-role attitudes to adapt to the current situation, so the single-parent family gender pair may be an important predictor of the intergenerational transmission type of parental child-rearing gender-role attitudes.
The Influence of Intergenerational Transmission of Parental Child-rearing Gender-role Attitudes on Children’s Gender Role
Gender expectations or requirements in parental child-rearing gender-role attitudes not only come from parents, but also from the “explicit function” and “latent function” constructed by all the family members, which affect the physical and mental development of children [23]. Influenced by traditional cultural concepts, Chinese grandparents generally regard taking care of their children as the responsibility to carry on the family name, and obtain happiness in the dedicated process of taking care of children [19]. In addition, China is in a period of social transition with fierce competition. In order to bring better living conditions to the family, parents devote all their energy to work [20]. Grandparents are also willing to take care of the children for them at home after retirement, and participate in the upbringing of their grandchildren. This makes the grandparent-parent co-parenting system gradually become the main form of current family education. However, in the process of raising their grandchildren, grandparents have the tendency to spoil and overprotective, which will adversely affect the social development of the children [18]. Studies have found that the main gender roles of children being brought up by grandparents are undifferentiated and femininity [12]. This may be because grandparents care too much about grandchildren and do not let them engage in adventurous activities. As a result, male traits such as adventurousness, independence and bravery have not been sufficiently cultivated and exercised, therefore the children tend to be timid and dependent, which is not conducive to their exploration of the external world. It can be seen that the parenting attitudes of grandparents also play an important role in the formation of their offspring’s gender roles.
At the same time, grandparents are an important part of the family constructed by parents, and the parenting styles and constructs of grandparents may either be continued or changed by the parents. Grandparents and parents co-parenting children may cause some differences and disagreements. Studies have shown that differences and conflicts arising from inconsistent parenting beliefs can lead to tension in family relationships [39] and become the cause of children’s problem behaviors. Conversely, if the parenting styles of grandparents and parents are consistent, the children will be less likely to develop problem behaviors. A consistent but undesirable parenting style (for example, strict parenting, refusal to deny, etc.) can also lead to the development of problem behaviors in children. It can be seen that the consistency of grandparents’ and parents’ parenting beliefs, and the property of their parenting will affect the development of their children. Therefore, it is necessary to pay attention to the property and consistency of parenting attitudes, otherwise it will be difficult to accurately locate their influence on children.
Parents’ gender roles and the intergenerational transmission of parental child-rearing gender-role attitudes may affect children’s gender role development. Other family factors, such as the single-parent family gender pair, family income, parents’ education levels, social-economic status, the number and gender of children affect children’s gender roles, and are also worth exploring. Single-parent families are divided into four single-parent family gender pairs by biological sex: father-son families, father-daughter families, mother-son families, and mother-daughter families. Since children construct their own gender mainly by observing and imitating their parents [40], the absent parent in single-parent families makes it easy for teenagers to lose the direct opportunity to understand gender differences and to imitate gender roles, which then affects the gender socialization of single-parent children [8]. Previous studies on the impact of gender pairs in single-parent families on children’s gender roles have shown different results. Boys raised by single mothers unconsciously show more feminine traits due to the lack of opportunity to witness masculine traits [41]. Studies have also found that girls raised by single mothers have more masculine traits [38], meaning that the gender roles of children are reversed. Other studies have found that boys raised by single mothers have more male traits and show sex-typed gender roles [38]. Other studies have found that, because single parents often have the responsibilities of both the father and mother, their children’s views on gender roles are more flexible and their children are therefore more likely to form androgynous gender roles [42]. It can be seen that the single-parent family structure has an impact on the development of children’s gender roles, and that the impact of single-parent family environments with different gender pairs on children’s gender roles is different. Family socio-economic status is also an important factor in the development of children’s gender roles [13, 43]. Family socio-economic status generally includes parents’ educational level, income, number of family members, etc. Studies have found that lower income and education levels are correlated with the tradition or inequality of gender attitudes [44]. The more educated people are, the more equal and flexible their gender attitudes are [43]. Adolescents with siblings have a more solidified concept of different roles in the family [45], meaning that their gender role cognition can be different from only children. Only children are more affected by their parents’ attitudes towards gender than non-only children [45]. And children with only same-sex siblings are more likely to make same-sex choices, because of the lack of opposite-sex toys and activities. Children with opposite-sex siblings are likely to make opposite-sex choices due to their exposure to opposite-sex toys and activities, indicating that gender differences in the family also interact with the gender identity of the family members. To sum up, various factors in the family will have an impact on the process of individual gender socialization, and thus may affect their social adaptation. Therefore, this study will analyze the intergenerational transmission of parental child-rearing gender-role attitudes in single-parent families and its influence on children’s gender roles, while also bringing various other family factors into consideration for a comprehensive discussion.
The Present Study
Previous studies have found that, in the family, parents’ gender roles [10], gender role attitudes of parents, parental child-rearing gender-role attitudes [13], family socioeconomic status [9, 43] and other factors may influence the development of children’s gender roles. It can be seen that parents’ traits and their value systems are one of the main factors in shaping children’s gender roles. From the perspective of cognition, parents will inevitably carry the traces of their children’s grandparents, and therefore influence the gender roles of their children [8], given that grandparents are also an important part of the current education of the family in China [19]. Especially in single-parent families, grandparents can provide strong social support [21]. Therefore, if we ignore the role of grandparents in the gender socialization of single-parent children, we may not be able to fully understand the way family factors shape the gender roles of single parent children. Therefore, this study will start from the intergenerational level to explore the possible impact of the relationship between grandparental and parental child-rearing gender-role attitudes on children in single-parent families. At the same time, in addition to “latent functions” such as parental child-rearing gender-role attitudes, this study also included “explicit functions” such as family socioeconomic status, the number of children in the family, the gender pair of single-parent families, and the gender role of parents in the potential influencing factors. In addition to expanding the understanding of the intergenerational transmission of gender roles in single-parent families, the results of this study can be used as a reference for social workers in designing assistance programs for single-parent families. In conclusion, based on structural function theory, this study comprehensively considers the intergenerational transmission of parental child-rearing gender-role attitudes in single-parent families and the impact of various family factors on children’s gender roles.
Therefore, the research questions of this study are as follows:
1. Are there similarities of gender role types between parents and children in single-parent family?
2. Are there similarities of parental child-rearing gender-role attitudes between grandparents and parents in single-parent family?
3. How do family factors (socio-economic status, family gender pairs, parents’ gender role types) affect intergenerational transmission of parental child-rearing gender-role attitudes in single-parent family?
4. How do family factors (socio-economic status, siblings, family gender pairs, parents’ gender role types, intergenerational transmission of parental child-rearing gender-role attitudes) affect children’s gender role in single-parent family?