A total of 15 interviews were conducted with the family caregivers of schizophrenic patients about the positive consequences of schizophrenia for the family. Participant characteristics are shown in Table 2. The family caregivers included 11 females and 4 males with monthly income ranging from 10 to 50 million rials. 8 of them were Baloch and 7 Sistani ethnicity (Table 2). Their patients included 6 females and 9 males aged 26–56 years, and a 5 -22 years of disease duration. Two patients had a university degree and the others had a high school or lower education. All but one patient were Unemployed.
Table 2: Participants demographic characteristics
No. of
Caregivers
|
Age
|
Marital status
|
Educational status
|
Religion
|
Relationship with patient
|
Occupational status
|
duration of the disease(year)
|
Years of caregiving
|
1
|
42
|
Married
|
Middle school
|
Islam/Shia
|
Sister
|
Unemployed
|
8
|
8
|
2
|
40
|
Married
|
Primary school
|
Islam/ Sunni
|
Spouse
|
Paid employment
|
22
|
22
|
3
|
33
|
Divorced
|
Middle school
|
Islam/ Sunni
|
Brother
|
Paid employment
|
9
|
2
|
4
|
31
|
Married
|
No formal education
|
Islam/ Sunni
|
Spouse
|
Paid employment
|
9
|
9
|
5
|
32
|
Single
|
University
|
Islam/ Sunni
|
Uncle
|
Full time employment
|
6
|
6
|
6
|
30
|
Single
|
High school
|
Islam/Shia
|
Sister
|
Paid employment
|
5
|
5
|
7
|
45
|
Married
|
Primary school
|
Islam/ Sunni
|
Mother
|
Unemployed
|
5
|
5
|
8
|
40
|
Married
|
Primary school
|
Islam/Shia
|
Half-daughter-in-law
|
Paid employment
|
8
|
8
|
9
|
65
|
Married
|
University
|
Islam/Shia
|
Mother
|
Retirement
|
8
|
8
|
10
|
43
|
Married
|
University
|
Islam/Shia
|
Spouse
|
Paid employment
|
10
|
10
|
11
|
32
|
Married
|
University
|
Islam/ Sunni
|
Son
|
Full time employment
|
18
|
10
|
12
|
25
|
Single
|
High school
|
Islam/ Sunni
|
Daughter
|
Unemployed
|
15
|
10
|
13
|
24
|
Single
|
University
|
Islam/Shia
|
Daughter
|
Student
|
20
|
8
|
14
|
55
|
Married
|
Primary school
|
Islam/ Sunni
|
Spouse
|
Full time employment
|
20
|
20
|
15
|
48
|
Married
|
Primary school
|
Islam/Shia
|
Spouse
|
Unemployed
|
18
|
18
|
As shown in Table 3, Data analysis resulted in a theme entitled “family achievements in struggling with schizophrenia”, which included four categories and 17 subcategories: Developing positive personality traits in family members ( being able to express emotions easily, being stronger in the face of life problems, making greater intellectual developments than peers, being patient , having enhanced communication skills, achieving independence faster , and having increased ability to understand others); Strengthening family ties (increasing dependence and affection among family members, developing family members' empathetic participation in caring patient, and increasing support among family members); Developing insight into the life (understanding the importance of mental health, changing mindset from comfort to peace in life, feeling the presence of superior power in life); and Social mobility (a flip to change lifestyles, acquiring and enhancing capabilities, Economic dynamism, Dynamism in social services).
Table 3: Theme, Categories and subcategories extracted from the data
Subcategories
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Categories
|
Theme
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being able to express emotions easily
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Developing positive personality traits in family members
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Family achievements in struggling with schizophrenia
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being stronger in the face of life problems
|
making greater intellectual developments than peers
|
being patient
|
having enhanced communication skills
|
achieving independence faster
|
having increased ability to understand others
|
increasing dependence and affection among family members
|
Strengthening family ties
|
developing family members' empathetic participation in caring patient
|
increasing support among family members
|
Understanding the importance of mental health
|
Developing insight into the life
|
Changing mindset from comfort to peace in life
|
Feeling the presence of a superior power in life
|
A flip to change lifestyles
|
Social mobility
|
acquiring and enhancing capabilities
|
Economic dynamism
|
Dynamism in social services
|
Developing positive personality traits in family members
Based on the findings, living with and caring for a patient with schizophrenia caused significant changes in people's daily lives. Adaptation to these changes resulted in the development of positive personality traits in people who were living with these patients. According to the participants' experiences, seven subcategories were obtained concerning the development and growth of positive personality traits in the patient's family members.
Being able to express emotions easily
Based on the participants' experiences, the challenges of living with a patient with schizophrenia caused them to show their emotions (e.g., happiness or sadness) more openly and to react emotionally to small events. Their feeling of compassion to the patient had led them to show this feeling to others.
“My heart goes out to my mother. Because of her illness, I became so empathetic to others. I have suffered so much that I become happy with good news. I think I am much more compassionate than before; watching a sad movie makes me move to tears”. (C13)
In fact, the disease caused the family caregivers to become more sensitive to life events and react to small changes:
“My sister's illness has made it much easier for me to express my feelings than before. For example, if one of my stuttering students talks in full sentences without stutters, I will be so much happy and excited, so that even his mother will not show that much excitement”. (C6)
Being Stronger in the face of life problems
The problems raised by living with a schizophrenic patient strengthened the family caregivers' self-confidence. They believed that these difficulties made them stronger so that they could handle other problems in life.
“Those hard days made me strong and impassive. As strong as iron in the face of these problems. When I encounter a problem, I consider it nothing compared to those hard days”. (C15)
In case of family member’s disease, such as a spouse, hiring caregivers to carry the burden of life by accepting new roles and tasks is required. They experienced new situations throughout the care path, which made them more prepared for the future events.
“When my husband got neurological disorders, I had to manage my children, so that I would not need anyone. So, I stayed as solid as a rock. And did not give up”. (C2)
Making Greater intellectual developments than peers
Children of patients with schizophrenia were severely affected by the disease so that their needs are not met appropriately. Based on the children's gender, some roles may be assigned to them, which enable them to reach intellectual maturity earlier than their peers.
“Comparing myself to my peers, I notice that I am more mature with than them regard to the surrounding issues. Sometimes, my friends tell me: 'you are very wise and understand beyond your age”. (C11)
“In other words, my mother's disease helped my mind grow faster; that is, I became more mature”. (C12)
Being patient
One of the positive aspects of having a family member with schizophrenia was patience. In such families, patience resulted from caring for the patient is expanded through the life. A participant stated that she became much more patient in social interactions than the past and could tolerate inappropriate behavior of others much easier.
“I became much more patient than before; struggling with him increased our endurance and patience more than before. I realized that my patience had increased in dealing with others”. (C5)
Participants noted that this patience was a reward from God. They got surprised that they had achieved such strength and endurance, as the result of peaceful behavior with the patient.
“God has given me a patience; in my family, I am famous for being patient. Sometimes, I wonder how much patient I am. In dealing with my husband's behaviors, I learned that I should be silent when he is angry ... this increased my patience”. (C10)
Having enhanced communication skills
The development of communication skills was one of the family's achievements from living with schizophrenic patients, which was noted by participants, especially female caregivers. The illness of a family member, especially the spouse and father of the family, resulted in the loss or decrease of income. So, other family members, such as the patient's spouse, were required to work outside the home to pay for the expenses. Outside jobs provided the opportunity for individuals to interact with many people from different social backgrounds and strengthened their communication skills.
“From the onset of my husband’s disease, I have been working in different people's homes; for example, one was a doctor and one was a businessman. Every family was different and commuting to their homes helped me to learn how to speak well and communicate easily with others. As a result, I do not feel nervous while talking to others anymore”. (C2)
Achieving independence faster
Children of a parent with schizophrenia had to participate in household chores; they even needed to cooperate in caring for the patient. Such early cooperation and tasks allowed them to achieve independence sooner than their peers and strengthened their sense of responsibility.
“I stood on my own two feet much earlier than my friends and became independent ... I kept the wolf from the door so that I do not put my burden on my siblings' shoulder. In other words, my mother's illness made me grow up. My life's route was so that I had to grow up and become independent very quickly”. (C13)
Having increased ability to understand others
Incidence of the disease in a family exposed the family members to the judgments of others. Lack of understanding by others caused feelings such as sadness, embarrassment, and stigma in family members. Experience of these negative feelings caused the patient's family caregivers to try to understand others in similar situations and avoid misjudgments because they have already been victims of negative perceptions of others.
“This disease has taught me never to judge others and their lives or to make fun of anyone. This reminds me of my life, I know that judging and making fun of others can have harmful and negative consequences”. (C1)
Strengthening family ties
This category showed that when one family member had schizophrenia, the other family members got involved in caring for the patient to relieve the burden. As a result of this cooperation, the family ties strengthened.
Increasing dependence and affection among family members
The reaction of family members to the suffered member strengthened their love to each other. In present study, the father of a patient had a heart attack when his son was hospitalized in a psychiatric hospital. The presence of a disease in the family made the family members realize how much they loved each other.
“Now, I understand how much my husband loves our children. When one of our children was hospitalized, my husband had a heart attack and was hospitalized too ..., for this reason, I love my husband more than before; I think we are closer than before”. (C7)
Members of the patient's family considered the illness as a common pain, which required empathy between family members, a feeling that brought family members together, and increased love between them.
“My son's illness has brought me and my husband closer. This pain has made us more dependent on each other to take care of our son ... Now my son is in a condition that we need to be more empathetic, and that is what happened”. (C9)
Developing family members' empathetic participation in caring patient
The disability caused by schizophrenia may be so severe that the patient may not be able to perform personal daily tasks and hygiene self-care such as bathing, dressing, and eating, and need the help of others. When family members were aware of the patient's disabilities and knew that no one could take care of the patient alone, they felt obligated to participate in housework and patient care.
“From the onset of her disease, my husband cooperates in housework more ... For example, when my husband gets up early in the morning to go to work, he feeds her breakfast. He also helps me give her medications, take her to the doctor. Now, we are taking care of her together”. (C8)
Participation in caring patient was not confined to family members, but also it can extend to married children who live separately and can cooperate with the family to reduce the stress and burden.
“My brother and sister are married and do not live with us, but they still help us take care of my sister; they take her to the doctor, hospitalize her, and even pay for her hospitalization. They visit and help us more than before since my sister got ill”. (C6)
Increasing support among family members
Due to the lack of social support resources in Iran, families of patients with schizophrenia experience severe financial, emotional, and psychological stress. Experiences of family caregivers in present study showed that in such situations, family members provided the role of financial, emotional, and psychological support for the caregiver.
“Since my husband got sick, my children supported me so much. With their support, I was able to go to the university and get two bachelor's degrees; my children helped me a lot ... my family also supported me and my children more than before”.(C10)
Supporting caring parents by family members helped them to adapt to the changes caused by schizophrenia.
“My children are very attentive to me, even my older children support their younger siblings more than before. My children's support made me able to cope with my wife's illness”. (C14)
Providing insight into the life
Based on the participants' experiences, living with schizophrenia patients provided them insight into life. As a result of illness, they tried to change their attitude toward life, think deeply, and pay attention to what they had neglected before the illness.
Understanding the importance of mental health
The experience of families living with schizophrenics made them realize the importance of mental health in life and worry about their health. One of the causes of distress among caregivers was their qualifications to help the patient.
“Since my brother became ill, I feared developing the disease. I was obsessed with it for a while, so I went to a psychiatrist and now I am under control. Because I know if I get sick, there is no one to take care of my brother; so, I considered my health”. (C3)
The positive and negative symptoms of schizophrenia patients and their destructive behaviors had destructive effects on the patient and caregivers. So, the participants tried to avoid what harms their mental health, such as getting upset and nervous. They avoided trivial issues and considered their mental health as one of the most important aspects of health that should be protected.
“Since my sister became ill and I saw her behaviors, I realized that maintaining mental health is crucial. I am more concerned about my health and my children's health. I try not to get upset by little things”. (C1)
Changing the mindset from comfort to peace in life
Losing family peace due to stressful factors caused by schizophrenia helped the participants to conclude that having peace in life was much more valuable than gaining wealth, facilities, and money. They believed that comfort was effective under the shadow of peace.
“Even though I am old, the disease has changed my mindset. Previously I wanted my children to have good jobs and good incomes; that is to say, I was worried about their comfort. Now, I believe that peace in life is much more important than money”. (C9)
Participants stated that the presence of this disease changed their attitude towards life events; so, they tried to take life easier.
“Now, I try to make the events easy, I think they are not worth being upset, I should not grieve for them and ruin my life, I can handle them”. (C12)
Feeling the presence of superior power in life
Spirituality and closeness to God were among the other positive experiences of family caregivers with a schizophrenic patient. Participants believed that taking care of the patient was a blessing in their life and a reward from God. In fact, they believed that God bestowed them rewards for taking care of a patient.
“This is how God gives me sustenance. Since she is living with us, our sustenance has been growing. She has sustenance, when I take care of her, God gives me more sustenance. I do not mean the money, but the blessings”. (C8)
The presence of the disease led most family members to engage in religious activities and participate in religious ceremonies. They noted that this closeness to God was impacted by the illness of a family member since they felt God's presence in their lives more than ever before.
“With my mother's illness, I became much closer to God, which means I pray a lot. I vow and attend religious ceremonies. Maybe if my mother was not sick, I would not be so close to God. I feel God has taken my hand in some situations and helped me”. (C13 (
Social mobility
As a result of the illness of a family member, especially the father or spouse, the family lost its social and economic position. The experiences of some participants showed that the family members tried to reach their previous social status, improve their social class, and build their lives.
A flip to change lifestyles
The suffering in caregivers' life made them decide to change their lives, build their own lives, and compensate for the damage done to the family.
“When my husband fell ill, I said: 'I cannot just sit around and do nothing. I have two children and I have to build my life.' So, I started to change”. (C10)
The children of the patients were also determined to choose a good path in their lives. They tried to be beneficial to society; so, they had higher levels of motivation to study and find a suitable job.
“I got my diploma ... I went and bought an organ ... One day I came to myself and said: 'what do you want to do?' At that moment, I decided that I should change my life and serve the people around me ... I sold my organ and bought law books; I told myself that I must go to law school and I should be a member of the parliament in the future. Fortunately, I entered the university the same year”. (C11)
Acquiring and enhancing capabilities
The participants' experiences showed that family members of patients decided to work harder to support themselves. As a result, they began to improve their previous skills or learn new ones based on their working situation. However, if the family head was not sick, they would never think about acquiring or improving their skills.
“My husband's illness has made me learn live my life. I know needlework; so I went to my mother's house since she does needlework too... During this time, I saw different models and learned them; I did not know them before”. (C4)
To forget about the problems of living with the patient, some participants tried to entertain themselves with their favorite activities, such as exercising, sewing, going to university, etc. Such activities improved family members' skills.
“To entertain myself and forget about my sick husband, I was preoccupied with my favorite activities. I continued my studies, got a diploma, and then got two bachelor's degrees. I started a sewing school, established a gym, and continued my favorite sport ...” (C10)
Economic dynamism
According to the participants' experiences, family responsibilities led them to pursue income-generating activities; their efforts to support family expenses improved their economic conditions.
“I could manage my life even better than when my husband was not sick. Thank God my income was not bad. I helped my daughter and son to get married. I work and pay for my husband's expenses. Once a year, I hospitalize him”. (C2)
The experience of living with a patient with schizophrenia, which is a chronic and debilitating disorder, has taught the participants to manage their lives financially and provide themselves with the necessary welfare amenities. They learned not to wait for help from others. So, they performed income-generating activities.
“I have learned that I have to work and pay for my children anyway. To this end, I accept needlework orders. I have a little income, but it is better than before since I do not ask others for money”. (C4)
Dynamism in social services
According to the participants, dealing with the suffering of the disease and observing its negative effects made them move beyond the family conditions and decide to serve other people in the community.
“I sought to establish a charitable school on the outskirts of the city ... or I pursued a lot to get the privilege of a facilitation office there ... I owe all this success to the hardships I endured because of my father's illness”. (C11)
The patient's activities before the disease were a motivation for the participants to help others.
“After my sister's illness, when we saw that she could no longer go to the local mosque, my sister and I went there. When we do something for the people; well, God will take our hand. We could collect donations for the recent flood victims”. (C6)