This study examined the relationships between parenting styles towards preschoolers, self-concept (self-esteem and self-efficacy), and SPS, focusing on the mediating role of self-concept. The results of the mediation analyses revealed that self-esteem mediated the relationship between democratic style and SPS, whereas self-efficacy did not have a mediating role. The mediating role of self-esteem was found to be an "integrated" type of mediation (Zaho et al., 2010). In this context, it can be argued that functional parenting and high self-esteem help children produce more frequent and positive solutions to social problems in an interactive manner. This finding is consistent with another study conducted with adolescents, where it was found that adolescents' self-esteem partially mediated the relationship between democratic parenting and constructive problem-solving. Adolescents who grew up in a family environment with a democratic parenting had higher self-esteem and solved problems with more effective and constructive strategies (Kayaalp & Gündüz, 2018).
This study provides further evidence for the mediating role of self-concept, specifically self-esteem, in the relationship between parenting styles and children's social outcomes. This finding is consistent with previous research examining the mediating role of self-concept in the relationship between parenting styles and adolescent peer relationships (Deković & Meeus, 1997). In that study, it was found that positive self-concept and warm, supportive parenting significantly contributed to adolescents' peer relationships, particularly in the context of high maternal acceptance. Similarly, a study conducted with primary school students reported that positive parenting support for academic self-concept could decrease children's behavioral problems and increase their prosocial behaviors, which in turn contributed to their social relationships with peers at school (Sangawi et al., 2018). Recent studies have highlighted the bidirectional effect of positive family support on the SPS of young children and adolescents. This bidirectional effect can be interpreted as the family's indirect contribution to SPS by supporting children's social skills and self-esteem
In the current study, it was found that a democratic style had direct and positive effects on children's self-esteem, self-efficacy, and SPS. This result supports previous research that has shown that a democratic parenting style is most suitable for enhancing SPS, self-esteem, and self-efficacy in young children (Metwally & Akyol, 2018; Şenol & Karaca, 2020).
International cross-sectional and meta-analysis studies conducted with samples of children and adolescents have also demonstrated that democratic parenting, which involves parental warmth combined with strictness, enhances SPS (Su et al., 2020) and has positive effects on self-esteem (Jadon & Tripathi, 2017; Martinez et al., 2020; Pinquart & Gerke, 2019), self-efficacy (Yomtov et al., 2015), and self-concept (LeCuyer & Swanson, 2016). Based on the results of this study and in line with previous literature, it can be inferred that the positive effects of democratic parenting on self-concept and SPS are not contingent upon cultural differences, suggesting that these effects may be universal.
Democratic parents have high acceptance for their children, set manageable goals, and take into account the views of both parents and children in family communication (Baumrind, 1991). They use regulative power, which is clear, direct, rational, and goal-oriented, leading children to use more useful techniques in achieving their goals (Baumrind, 2012). Such children tend to be socially responsible, cooperative, and high in self-regulation, and may effectively solve social problems through interaction and useful techniques (Bloomquist et al., 1996; Su et al., 2020).
Discussions between parents and children during problem-solving provide an opportunity for individualization and autonomy development in children (Vuchinich et al., 1996). Parents’ guidance and modeling transfer to children's peer relationships. Studies indicate that closeness, intimacy, and cooperation with peers are positively related to SPS (Mize & Cox, 1990). Children's social information processing and problem-solving skills can be affected by social experiences with parents and peers (Raikes et al., 2013; Raikes & Thompson, 2008). Cross-sectional studies and meta-analyses suggest that democratic parenting is negatively associated with children's behavioral problems, and children with fewer behavioral problems use more effective problem-solving strategies (Eisenberg et al., 2009; Pinquart, 2017; Rudolph & Heller, 1997). Positive parenting, including warmth, sensitivity, high acceptance, and appropriate use of power, positively affects children's self-control, emotion regulation, and self-regulation skills (Kochanska & Aksan, 1995; Kochanska & Knaack, 2003). Research has also shown that self-regulation is related to SPS (Jelvegar et al., 2014). In this regard, it can be argued that democratic parenting affects children's SPS both directly and indirectly by reducing problem behaviors and supporting their self-control, emotion regulation, self-regulation skills, and sociability. Based on the results of previous research, it is reasonable to conclude that children with democratic parents use prosocial solution strategies more frequently when solving social problems due to their experiences of cooperation and reconciliation within the family, their parents' guidance and modeling, and their own self-regulation skills.
According to research, self-esteem plays a more direct and significant role in the development of SPS in children than self-efficacy (Özer & Saçkes, 2016). In fact, studies have shown that individuals with high self-esteem display positive problem orientation, while those with low self-esteem exhibit avoidance behavior and negative problem orientation (Hamarta, 2009; D'zurilla et al., 2003). This finding is supported by research conducted with older age groups, such as college students and adolescents (D'zurilla et al., 2003; Kayaalp & Gündüz, 2018). Additionally, students with high self-concept tend to be more popular, cooperative, extroverted, and dominant with their peers, as well as displaying positive social interaction skills (Hay et al., 1998). Thus, it can be concluded that self-esteem has a more significant impact on effective and desirable SPS in children, particularly in the early period of their development.
The results of the study on authoritarian parenting revealed that self-esteem and self-efficacy did not act as mediators in the relationship between authoritarian style and SPS. This implies that self-esteem did not have any positive or negative effect on the strategies used by children of mothers with authoritarian style while solving social problems. This finding contrasts with a previous study conducted in Turkey with adolescents, which reported that self-esteem played a mediating role between authoritarian parenting and SPS, and that negative problem-solving approaches were more severe in adolescents with low self-esteem (Kayaalp & Gündüz, 2018). The study also found that the authoritarian style did not have any direct effect on children's self-esteem and self-efficacy. Therefore, it was concluded that the self-concept of children who grew up with authoritarian parents was not negatively impacted by this style. However, the literature provides mixed findings regarding the relationships between authoritarian parenting and self-concept (self-esteem, self-efficacy). While some studies with young children reported similar results to this study (Şenol & Karaca, 2020), other studies have reported that authoritarian style negatively affects self-esteem in young children and adolescents (Kayaalp & Gündüz, 2018; Martinez-Escudero et al., 2020; Pinquart & Gerke, 2019; Tunç & Tezer, 2006), and even affects the self-esteem and self-efficacy of university students in a negative manner (Smith, 2007). A systematic review also suggested that authoritarian parenting has a consistently negative impact on self-esteem, causing damage to children's self-esteem and increasing feelings of inferiority (Jadon & Tripathi, 2017). Interestingly, the present study suggests that the impact of parenting, particularly in the context of authoritarian parenting, may be influenced by the differences between individualistic and collectivist cultures (Sahithya et al., 2019; Martinez et al., 2020; Rudy & Grusec, 2006), as well as the level of demands placed on children by authoritarian parents (Boer & Tranent, 2013).
Another finding indicate that authoritarian parenting did not directly affect the self-concept of children and their SPS strategies (Johnson & Smith, 2020). In other words, the self-concepts of children with authoritarian parents did not influence the strategies they used to solve social problems. However, this result contradicts previous research suggesting a possible negative relationship between SPS and self-concept in children who grew up with authoritarian parents and were negatively affected by this style (D'zurilla et al., 2003; Hamarta, 2009; Kayaalp & Gündüz, 2018).
We concluded that the authoritarian style, which did not affect children’s self-concept, explained SPS directly, and negatively. In other words, children with authoritarian parents preferred more non-prosocial strategies for solving social problems. In this context, this result regarding authoritarian style is compatible with the relevant literature. There are numerous studies examining the links between parenting quality and SPS in the early period and adolescence. In general, these studies determined that authoritarian style such as restraint, low acceptance, aggression, and criticism predicted the use of negative strategies for SPS (Jones et al., 1980; Kayaalp & Gündüz, 2018; Metwally & Akyol, 2018). For example, it was found that children used the avoidance strategy more in solving social problems, could not develop a negotiation strategy, and produced lower-level solution suggestions when the mother's restraint increased (Dodge et al., 1994; Jones et al., 1980; Kayaalp & Gündüz, 2018; Vuchinich et al., 1996). These findings are consistent with the negative association between authoritarian parenting and SPS. Authoritarian parents, who tend to use coercive power, focus on hierarchical status in family relations as well as domineering (such as orders and threats) and arbitrary practices. Children have to conform to the expectations and wishes of these types of parents. There is no mutual exchange of ideas in solving a problem. Therefore, children are restrained, suppressed, and forced to comply with the wishes of the adult (Baumrind, 2012). These tactics used by parents are shown to cause children to exhibit behaviors such as resentment, conflict, and avoidance (Baumrind, 1991). In this context, the authoritarian style emerged as a variable that directly affects children's SPS independent of their self-concept.
Examination of the results regarding overprotective style, it was first concluded that (similar to the authoritarian style) self-esteem and self-efficacy did not have a mediating role in the relationship between this style and SPS. The predictions that the overprotective style negatively affects children’s both self-concept and SPS, and that the low self-concept causes children to select more non-prosocial solutions in solving social problems were not confirmed. No other studies with young children were found regarding these variables. However, a study conducted with adolescents concluded the mediating role of self-esteem between overprotective style and SPS, and the severity of the negative approaches used by adolescents increased while solving social problems (Kayaalp & Gündüz, 2018). Another study determined that dysfunctional parenting (e.g., parental rejection, anxious rearing, and overprotection) had a negative effect on children’s self-esteem and peer relationships. In addition, evidence was presented that these effects explained children's behavioral problems (Georgiou et al., 2016). However, further studies need to be conducted with young children.
According to the results regarding direct effects, an overprotective style directly and negatively affect self-esteem. It was concluded that the self-esteem of the children who grew up with an overprotective style was negatively affected by this style. It was found that overprotective style did not have a direct effect on children's self-efficacy. The results of a limited number of studies conducted with young children in Turkey yielded similar evidence to this study (Şenol & Karaca, 2020). In addition, studies with adolescents and university students concluded that overprotection negatively affected self-esteem (Herz & Gullone, 1999; Kayaalp & Gündüz, 2018). Overprotective parents who internally control their children can send the message that they lack security and competence without parental assistance. This style then may harm their self-worth (Laurin et al., 2015), increase their anxiety (Vreeke et al., 2013), and cause children to experience internalization difficulties in the early period (Bayer et al., 2006). Therefore, the self-esteem of the children of parents with overprotective style may have been adversely affected by their low self-worth, perceptions of inadequacy, anxiety, and behavioral problems.
On the other hand, the self-esteem and self-efficacy of children with overprotective parents did not directly affect their SPS. Similar to the results of authoritarian style, the self-concepts of the children of overprotective parents did not affect the strategies they used in solving social problems. This finding in the present research is different from the relevant literature (D'zurilla et al., 2003; Kayaalp & Gündüz, 2018). While it was expected that children whose self-concept was negatively affected by overprotective style would choose strategies that were more dissocial, anxious, or avoidant when solving social problems, the results of the present study were not in line with this prediction. In addition, it was concluded that the overprotective style did not have a total and direct effect on SPS. The results of research examining the relationships between overprotective parenting and SPS are mixed, similar to the results regarding authoritarian style. Cross-sectional studies conducted in Turkey reported that overprotective parenting negatively affected young children's SPS (Kayaalp & Gündüz, 2018; Metwally & Akyol, 2018). It can be argued that this negativity stems from the fact that children with overprotective parents are indecisive, dependent on others (especially parents), insecure, low in self-worth, and anxious (Karabulut Demir & Şendil, 2008; Laurin et al., 2015). In addition, the results of current research conducted with the young age group also showed that the children of overprotective parents exhibited low sociability and were alienated by their peers (Cooklin et al., 2013; Zhu et al., 2021). However, the fact that overprotective parenting is not associated with children's SPS may be due to the multidimensional nature of this parenting styles with various implications on children's adjustment (Power & Hill, 2008), inability to fully clarify parental overprotection, and the differences regarding the antecedents and consequences of such behaviors (Thomasgard & Metz, 1993). Additionally, attention should be paid to both intercultural and intracultural differences in parenting practices (Sahithya et al., 2019).
The study found that self-esteem, self-efficacy, and self-concept did not mediate the relationship between permissive style and SPS strategies in children of permissive parents. The literature did not provide diverse studies for comparison, and the national and international results failed to explain the effect of permissive parenting on children's self-concept. Furthermore, studies with young children were limited. The study concluded that a permissive style directly and negatively affected children's self-esteem and self-efficacy. The warmth displayed by permissive parents encourages positive emotions, but the lack of control may hinder children's development of competence and achievement. Therefore, the effects of these two dimensions should be taken into account when gathering data on permissive parents. One study found no relationship between permissive parenting and young children’s self-concept (Şenol & Karaca, 2020). Studies with adolescents and a meta-analysis showed that permissive parenting positively affected self-esteem (Sharma & Pandey, 2015), while another study found a negative effect on self-concept (Rezai et al., 2013). A recent review reported mixed results on the relationship between permissive parenting and self-esteem (Singh, 2017). Permissive parenting warmth encourages positive emotions, but the lack of control may hinder children's competence and achievement (Pinquart & Gerke, 2019). In this context, both dimensions should be considered when studying permissive parenting.
The self-esteem and self-efficacy of children raised by permissive parents did not directly influence their SPS. Similar to the results of authoritarian, overprotective parents, this style of permissive parents did not differentiate children's self-concept or SPS strategies. This finding in the present study is different from the findings in the relevant literature (D'zurilla et al., 2003; Hamarta, 2009; Kayaalp & Gündüz, 2018). On the other hand, the total and direct effect of permissive style on children's SPS was negative (Hu & Feng, 2021).
Permissive parenting has been linked to a tendency for children to use non-prosocial strategies when attempting to solve social problems, and some studies have supported a negative relationship between permissive style and young children's prosocial behaviors, such as cooperation, sharing, helping, and comforting (Hu & Feng, 2021). It is possible that the anxious and atypical behaviors exhibited by children with permissive parents could also contribute to difficulties in solving social problems (Cucu Ciuhan, 2021). However, some studies have found no significant relationship between permissive style and children's SPS (Metwally & Akyol, 2018). This suggests that other variables not considered in this study may also be impacting the results. Permissive parenting, which is marked by low control and high acceptance, can at times be equated with neglect. Children may have unrestricted access to food, sleep, television, and outdoor activities. Parents who adopt this approach may avoid disciplining their children, shirk their responsibilities, and have minimal expectations for their child's behavior (Baumrind et al., 2010; Baumrind, 1991; Maccoby & Martin, 1983). Permissive parenting has been linked to several negative outcomes in children. Research has suggested that children with permissive parents may have less autonomy and show immature social-emotional development (Baumrind et al., 2010). Additionally, permissive parenting has been associated with internalizing and externalizing problems, aggressive behavior, and attachment issues with peers (Rinaldi & Howe, 2012; Llorca et al., 2017). Furthermore, children with permissive parents may have difficulty experiencing and expressing emotions (Wischerth et al., 2016). These findings shed light on the possible reasons behind the results obtained in the current study regarding permissive style. As permissive parenting is characterized by low control and high acceptance, children raised in such an environment may develop their own ways of solving social dilemmas within the family, without criticism or correction from their parents. This acceptance of the children's solutions may lead them to believe that their strategies are effective, which could result in the use of similar strategies in other social situations.
Limitations and Recommendations
The study had several limitations. First of all, data on parenting styles were obtained only from mothers, not from children. It is known that obtaining parenting data from children or from parents may differentiate the findings (Şenol & Karaca, 2020; Tunç & Tezer, 2006). On the other hand, the lack of data from fathers may have affected the depth of our findings as well (Winsler et al., 2005). In addition, the number of participants was small, and the data lacked observation. It is suggested to support the participation of parents in further research through observation and collecting data from a larger participant sample. Another limitation in the current study was related to examining self-concept on the basis of school sensitivity (self-efficacy) and self-sensitivity (self-esteem) as proposed by Demoulin (1998). In particular, this theoretical basis may have created the prominence of self-esteem in this study and generated self-efficacy findings that did not allow for making effective inferences. It is believed that self-concept data obtained by using different measurement tools can make significant contributions to the literature. Finally, besides the relationship between parental styles, children's SPS, and the mediating role of self-concept in these relationships, further studies should investigate all variables in conjunction and address behavioral problems (D'zurilla et al., 2003) which are included in the relevant literature, and which will immensely contribute to the understanding of these relationships.