Multiple studies have demonstrated the variability of effects the SARS-CoV-2 pandemic and its social distancing measure had on people' sexual function and behaviors. In understanding how these two interacted with each other during this period, the present study sought to evaluate the relation between variations in sexual behavior frequencies and men's and women' sexual function.
Our study results corroborated global trends such as that the frequency of coupled sexual behaviors decreased, whereas single sexual behaviors increased (Hammoud et al., 2020; Holt et al., 2023; Mercer et al., 2022; Mitchell et al., 2023; Toldam et al., 2022), and that overall people' sexual behavior frequencies either decreased, remained the same, or increased (Arafat et al., 2020), while the decrease was of a larger magnitude for women than for men (Hensel et al., 2023; Qaderi et al., 2023). However, our results showed new nuances to the relation between the well studied sexual behaviors and sexual function dimensions.
The Chilean government's response to the pandemic did not differ significantly from that of other governments (Camara de Diputados y Diputadas, 2021), not believed to have been as stringent as the ones imposed by countries like China or Italy. However, to date, the following study constitutes the only account of Chilean people sexual function and behaviors. Reports on mental health consequences amid the pandemic demonstrated that Chilean people had a rather similar outlook than the rest of the world (Barrientos et al., 2021). Therefore, the present study helps better understand the relation between variations in sexual behavior frequency during the pandemic, but also expands our understanding of other least studied populations in sex research such as Latam countries and the Global South (Baker, 2023; Binnie, 2004; Claes, 2016; Klein et al., 2021; Reidpath & Pascale, 2019).
Amongst the explored sexual behaviors, our data showed that dating was the one that experienced the largest decrease and lowest increase during the pandemic for women and men. Indeed, given the nature of infection and its spread (Synowiec et al., 2021), social distancing measures vastly restricted in-person interactions, thus limiting dating. Dating new partners remained low and stable across the first two years of the pandemic as shown in US adults (Rushmore et al., 2024). Still, it appears that relationship status, online dating, or sexting did not vary significantly comparing before vs. during the pandemic (Coombe et al., 2021; Yarger et al., 2021) despite the surge in the use of online dating technologies at the beginning of the pandemic (Wiederhold, 2021). Whereas these technologies offered an opportunity to seek or maintain sexual dating behaviors and were used by many (Choi et al., 2022), paradoxically they led to a higher dissatisfaction likely due to the limitations of social distancing still in place, as well as due to the exposition of unwanted and invasive content sharing and requests, emotional distress, and judgement from others (Anderson & Ross, 2024; Setty & Dobson, 2024). This would corroborate the larger sexual satisfaction and a lesser risk of experiencing sexual dysfunction in men and women whose “dating” frequency remained unaffected in comparison to those for whom it decreased or increased. Although the effect was much larger in women.
Sexting was also affected by the pandemic. Our findings demonstrated that men and women who had a lesser frequency of sexting experienced a lower sexual satisfaction than those for whom these remained unaffected. Sexting represented either an alternative or a new way to engage intimately and sexually with people during the pandemic (Lehmiller et al., 2021), especially as social distancing measures became more stringent (Thomas et al., 2022). Amongst those willing to share this content, a higher frequency of sexting was associated with a higher arousal and relational affirmation needs, as well as stress regulation, a relationship moderated by gender and relationship status (Maes & Vandenbosch, 2022). Likewise, in comparison to those who did not engage in sexting during the second wave of the pandemic, adult women those who engaged in sexting during isolation scored higher on intimacy, passion, couple satisfaction (Bonfanti et al., 2023). Indeed, sexting was able to modulate the relationship between loneliness and sexual satisfaction during the pandemic (Bonfanti et al., 2023), thus providing an effective coping strategy while in isolation. Given the varied motivations for sexting and differing attitudes towards it (Klettke et al., 2014), those who sexted less frequently might have been with a partner who had a negative attitude towards sexting, leading to lower sexual satisfaction. Sexting is often considered an expected part of relationships (Weisskirch & Delevi, 2011), and individuals who were single during the pandemic may have refrained from sexting due to the lack of a partner or because common motives, such as alleviating boredom or seeking intimacy, were not applicable in their circumstances (Kopecký, 2012).
Regarding foreplay, our findings demonstrated that men and women who had a lesser frequency of foreplay experienced a lower sexual satisfaction than those for whom these remained unaffected. Meanwhile, only women who had less foreplay were at a higher risk of experiencing sexual dysfunction, whereas only men whose foreplay frequency increased experienced a significantly higher overall satisfaction than those for whom it remained unaffected. When assessing the association between the risks of experiencing sexual dysfunction for women in relationships, “too little foreplay” is commonly amongst the most common complaints in women (Hisasue et al., 2005; Shaeer et al., 2020; Witting et al., 2008). During the pandemic, as shown in the general population and healthcare workers, foreplay duration decreased significantly (Güzel & Döndü, 2022; Narkkul et al., 2022). Culha et al. (2021) found that people not only preferred less foreplay but also favored more non-face-to-face sexual positions, likely as a strategy to reduce close physical contact and minimize infection risk. Fewer foreplay practices may have reduced sexual satisfaction more for those who particularly needed it but were unable to engage in it due to pandemic constraints. Conversely, men who increased their foreplay frequency may have found it a compensatory behavior for the lack of other forms of intimate contact, addressing a need that is often underestimated in men (Miller & Byers, 2004). This suggests that the frequency of foreplay during the pandemic played a significant role in modulating sexual satisfaction, with gender differences highlighting varied needs and responses to changes in sexual behavior.
Sexual fantasies are one of the least explored sexual behaviors amid the pandemic. Our results indicated that women reported a larger increase than men did and, compared to those whose sexual fantasies remained unaffected or experienced more, women who experienced less sexual fantasies scored meaningfully lower in sexual arousal and satisfaction and were at a higher risk of sexual dysfunction. In contrast, men scored meaningfully lower in sexual desire and intercourse satisfaction. These results corroborate other findings where a bit more than 30% of people sexually fantasized more during the lockdown, where more women more frequently reported this change, and that this increase in sexual fantasies correlated with an increase in solitary sexual practices (Ballester-Arnal et al., 2021; Cascalheira et al., 2021). It is likely that the increased sexual fantasy frequency and lower sexual function scores in men and women are in part explained by the lower sexual intercourse frequency, which are indeed explained by constant worries, stress levels, being locked up at home, etc., amid the pandemic (Ballester-Arnal et al., 2021). Although, other studies have shown that people expanded their sexual repertoire into trying new positions, sex technologies, and sharing sexual fantasies (Bowling et al., 2021; Lehmiller et al., 2021). These differences can be explained by the attitude toward sexual fantasies, which in turn have been found to predict several dimensions of both female and male sexual function (Sierra et al., 2021).
Solo sexual activities such as masturbation and watching pornography saw the most consistent increase and lesser decrease in frequency during the pandemic amongst sexual behaviors, more distinctly in men than in women. Our results also demonstrated that women whose frequency of masturbation and watching pornography decreased during the pandemic had a meaningfully lower sexual desire and arousal and were at a higher risk of experiencing sexual dysfunction, whereas men in the same situation had a meaningfully lower sexual desire. Indeed, several studies have shown how the pandemic fostered both an increase and decrease in sexual desire and arousal (Bowling et al., 2021; Hammoud et al., 2020; Holt et al., 2023; Mercer et al., 2022; Mitchell et al., 2023; Toldam et al., 2022), which, in turn, would explain an increase or decrease, respectively, in these behaviors. Whereas some studies showed a significant positive effect of masturbation and watching pornography during the pandemic, even as a coping mechanism, which in turn predicted a better sexual function (Berdychevsky, 2023a, 2023b), a decrease in these behaviors has also been associated with the opposite, where the larger decrease effect on women would explain why they could have had a significant higher risk of experiencing sexual dysfunction (Masoudi et al., 2022; Mourikis et al., 2022; Qaderi et al., 2023).
Sexual intercourse was the most widely studied behavior during the pandemic. Our results corroborated the global trends showing the highest decrease of a similar magnitude for men and women. Similarly, a decrease in sexual intercourse frequency was associated with a meaningfully lower desire, arousal, orgasm, and satisfaction, as well as a higher risk of sexual dysfunction for both men and women, where the largest decrease was found in the satisfaction dimensions. Nevertheless, only in men, an increase of sexual intercourse was associated with a meaningful increase in overall satisfaction. Indeed, most studies showed that partnered sexual behaviors, such as sexual intercourse, experience more frequently a decreased in frequency during the pandemic (Hammoud et al., 2020; Holt et al., 2023; Mercer et al., 2022; Mitchell et al., 2023; Toldam et al., 2022). Several factors have more commonly been found to be associated with these fluctuations, such as personal and family-related (Hensel et al., 2023; Mitchell et al., 2023; Mourikis et al., 2022), work-related (Karsiyakali et al., 2020; Vieira et al., 2023), covid-19-related (Qaderi et al., 2023; Zak et al., 2024), social distancing-related (Maxwell et al., 2023; Seehuus et al., 2023), mental health-related (Bhambhvani et al., 2021; Dion et al., 2023; Mollaioli et al., 2021; Szuster et al., 2021).
Across all examined sexual behaviors, there is a consistent and more pronounce effect on sexual satisfaction, which was meaningfully lower across studies, similarly as reported through systematic reviews and meta-analyses (Masoudi et al., 2022; Mourikis et al., 2022; Qaderi et al., 2023; Zalpour et al., 2023). There are two main hypotheses to explain changes in sexual function and behaviors during stressful situations such as the SARS-CoV-2 pandemic. The terror management theory (Greenberg & Pyszczynski, 1986) suggests that anxiety triggered by mortality and imminent threats can heighten the desire for intimacy and closeness, thereby influencing sexual desire. For instance, studies have shown that the desire for casual sex increased among men when reminded of their mortality, whereas sexual desire increased in both genders when the encounter had romantic connotations (Birnbaum et al., 2011). Alternatively, the dual control model of sexual response (Bancroft et al., 2009) differentiates between individuals whose reaction to stimulation tends toward either excitation or inhibition. While some may experience a decrease in sexual desire due to stress, others might experience an increase in sexual drive (Masoudi et al., 2022). Factors such as social distancing and boredom may also contribute to compulsive sexual behaviors as individuals seek to avoid negative emotions. Men, in particular, appear to exhibit stronger sexual desire compared to women, which could explain a greater increase in their sexual behaviors in response to the pandemic (Baumeister et al., 2001). Finally, it is worth considering that social distancing measures imposed many people to the confinement within their homes, with known consequences hindering people' sexual behaviors and function (Zalpour et al., 2023), still depending on the psychological adjustment (Carvalho et al., 2021).
Limitations and future research
A few caveats should be acknowledged. The study was conducted online, skewing the participation to those with access to social media and more educated people, yet also less likely to include vulnerable populations, who have had a worse experience during the pandemic (Li et al., 2023; Weill et al., 2020). Our study was vastly limited in terms of gender-diverse people. Whereas the CSSS sample included a gender non-binary, this was far too low to conduct a meaningful comparison and reliable statistical analyses.