Intimate partner violence (IPV) pertains to a pervasive pattern of abusive behaviors manifesting within an intimate relationship, resulting in physical, sexual, or psychological harm. This encompasses acts of physical aggression, sexual coercion, psychological abuse, and controlling conduct. IPV manifests in various forms, including verbal insults, threats, physical violence, sexual assault, financial manipulation, and emotional coercion. This definition encompasses detrimental actions perpetrated by both current and former spouses and partners. In defining the phenomenon, emphasis in sociology and related fields is placed only on the acts of violence themselves, disconnected from the dynamics of the relationship or the gender issues. However, a feminist perspective sees IPV as a series of actions aimed at exerting dominance over an intimate partner (Larsen, 2016). This conceptualization moves beyond viewing incidents in isolation, emphasizing the significance of power dynamics, as well as the intent and repercussions of the violence.
According to the World Health Organization (WHO), IPV constitutes a majority of violence against women, with prevalence estimates of this form of violence ranging from 18% in the Western Pacific region to 35% in Africa (WHO, 2022; Sardinha et al., 2022). However, empirical studies on intimate partner violence (IPV) unveil a more nuanced pattern. Analyses in non-clinical populations reveal that women are more frequent perpetrators of violence. At the same time, in clinically abusive relationships, both men and women engage in physical abuse, with a higher incidence of women requiring medical treatment for injuries (Archer, 2000; Capaldi et al., 2012). Thus, while intimate partner violence appears to be generally independent of gender, women tend to experience more severe consequences, especially regarding health and, at times, life. This observation aligns with police statistics on domestic violence. For example, in Poland, from 2012 to 2022, law enforcement agencies reported over 701,000 men (91.5% of perpetrators) and 61,686 women (8% of perpetrators) as suspects in domestic violence cases (Policja, 2023). Notably, women constitute the majority of victims (71.4%). Given the characteristics of the cultural context of this project, our research therefore focuses on men's violence against women (MFIPV). This emphasis does not imply that we deny or even ignore the existence of women's violence against men (FMIPV).
Given the widespread prevalence of intimate partner violence and its multifaceted consequences, research into the drivers of IPV has expanded significantly in recent years. This investigation spans culturally and politically diverse regions (for Europe see e.g., Costa et al., 2015; for North America see e.g., Ansara & Hindin, 2011; Black et al., 2010; for Latin countries see e.g., Bott et al., 2019; for Asia see e.g., Nguyen et al., 2013; Yoshihama et al., 2007; for Middle East see e.g., Mojahed et al., 2022; Moshtagh et al., 2023, for Africa see e.g., Olayanju et al., 2013, Roman & Frantz, 2013), exploring various factors at different levels of specificity. These factors range from demographic and socioeconomic (e.g., Abramsky et al., 2011; Bhona et al., 2019) to psychological, such as patriarchal ideologies (Lelaurain et al., 2021), sexism (Cinquegrana et al., 2022; Viki & Abrams, 2002) or prejudice toward the victims of violence (Murvartian et al., 2023). While these studies successfully identify individual risk factors, they only partially elucidate the persistence of the phenomenon.
We posit that one of pivotal mechanisms contributing to the enduring nature of IPV is the legitimization of this form of violence. This refers to the societal, cultural, or individual processes that contribute to the acceptance, normalization, or justification of abusive behaviors within relationships.
Legitimization of IPV
Legitimization of IPV involves the endorsement or tacit approval of violence as an acceptable means of conflict resolution or control. At the individual level, legitimization may manifest as the rationalization of abusive actions, minimizing the harm caused, or shifting blame onto and infra-humanization of the victim (Baldry et al., 2015). Violence can be perceived as a normal response to provocation, stress, or loss of control (Rollero, 2020). Societal or cultural legitimization occurs when harmful behaviors are excused, overlooked, or normalized within a community, reinforcing an environment where IPV can persist unchecked. This process often involves the perpetuation of traditional gender norms, power imbalances, or ingrained beliefs that contribute to a culture of silence or reluctance to intervene (Gracia, 2004). For instance, communities with rigid gender roles and stereotypes may inadvertently legitimize IPV by normalizing male dominance and female subservience. On cultural level, legitimization can be observed within societies that value honor and family reputation over individual safety may discourage victims from reporting IPV (Amoateng-Boahen, 2015; McCleary-Sills et al., 2016).
Romantic love narrative
One significant factor contributing to the legitimization of IPV is the pervasive influence of societal norms and cultural expectations associated with romantic love and a stereotypical view of intimate relationships. These factors primarily affect the perception of violent behavior. Societal narratives of romantic love often portray jealousy and possessiveness as signs of love rather than control or abuse (DeShong & Haynes, 2016). Moreover, the idealization of love and relationships can lead to the acceptance of harmful behaviors as expressions of passion (Chung, 2005).
The media coverage of domestic homicides, as explored by Monckton-Smith (2012), serves as a poignant example of how societal perceptions and attitudes toward intimate partner violence are reflected and reinforced through various channels. It tends to perpetuate traditional gender roles and reinforce harmful stereotypes associated with romantic relationships. Violence, frequently fatal, is commonly perceived as a singular eruption of anger, attributed to "losing control" instead of being portrayed as the culmination of a pattern of abuse, violence is rationalized and normalized, and framed as an isolated incident that was deemed unforeseeable and unavoidable (Gillespie et al., 2013; Herbst & Gez, 2012). Even in societies increasingly aware and sensitive to gender equality, romantic love is often exploited by the media to legitimize a man's perceived need to regain control over his female partner (Gius & Lalli, 2014).
Additionally, the narrative pattern frequently incorporates a depiction of harm that, rather than emphasizing the loss of health or even life experienced by the victim, focuses on a shared loss within the couple—the tragic demise of love (Monckton-Smith, 2012). This commonality of loss often overshadows the individual voices of the victims, but also provides the aggressor’s with victim status (Herbst & Gez, 2012).
Moreover, accentuating the victim's romantic relationship with the perpetrator, thus suggesting their entanglement in the crime, may contribute to the diminished empathy toward IPV victims (Gracia, 2014). Consequently, it leads to challenges in constructing an identity free from victimization, driven, in part, by the sense that victims must prove their worthiness of empathy to access support (Meyer, 2016).
The repercussions of legitimizing intimate partner violence extend not only to the general public but also permeate various public entities, such as the justice system responsible for safeguarding the rights of crime victims. Research indicates that the presence of a romantic relationship, particularly within the context of marriage, between the perpetrator and the victim confers a legal advantage to the accused. This implies a presumption that the bonds of "love" and matrimony mitigate the gravity of violent actions (Herbst & Gez, 2012). Moreover, the inclination to perceive IPV as a relational or familial issue can engender the perspective that such violence should not fall under the purview of criminal adjudication (Meyer, 2011; Pallatino et al., 2019) and can be considered as “marital problem”, thus a private matter. As a consequence, the legal response depends on whether a victim wants to end their relationship (Fugate et al., 2005; Schneider, 2000). Lack of empathy for IPV victims and bias against them, evident in the general public, is also observed within the judicial system. The system often fails to provide necessary protection to a victim who does not conform to the acceptable archetype of an IPV victim ("who is married, has children, is a 'good woman'"; Garcia & McManimon, 2011).
The role of romantic narrative in perception of IPV
Understanding the factors contributing to IPV's perpetuation is crucial not only for dismantling ingrained societal norms that may inadvertently sustain and normalize such violence, but also for formulating effective interventions. In light of its prevalence and societal impact, rigorous research on legitimization of IPV is imperative for advancing social understanding and promoting evidence-based policies, awareness campaigns, and community initiatives aimed at reducing consequences of this form of violence.
With this in mind, our objective is to identify factors contributing to the legitimization of IPV. Therefore, the primary aim of this project is to examine the causal relationship between the legitimization of IPV and the narrative surrounding the intimate relationship between the perpetrator and the victim. To achieve this, we explored how the narrative of romantic love influences the perceived accountability of the male offender and the female victim, as well as the potential length and severity of punishment of the offender. The novelty of this research lies in exploring a direct, causal connection between the narrative on romantic love motive and legitimization, a dimension that has been insufficiently explored in existing studies. Prior investigations into this issue have predominantly adopted qualitative methodologies, delving into media (e.g., Gius & Lalli, 2014, Herbst & Gez, 2012, Monckton-Smith, 2012) and court narratives (e.g., Coates et al., 1994, Gutowski & Goodman, 2020; Khaw et al., 2021; Randall, 2010) or have centered on correlational analyses exploring the foundational factors of the phenomenon (e.g., Lelaurain et al., 2021). The application of experimental research holds the potential to establish a more robust case for the existence of a relationship and, consequentially, propel a discourse on the role of stereotypical framing of male-female romantic relationships and gender inequality in relationships.
Project design
Two preregistered online experiments were undertaken, integrating the romantic love theme within narratives of violent incidents. We introduced the romantic theme in two ways. In the first experiment, we compared the impact of romantic motive for crime on measures of legitimization. In the second experiment, we expanded our focus to encompass not only the type of motive, but also the type of relationship between the offender and the victim. We were particularly interested in determining whether including in the narrative information on the romantic relations between the perpetrator and victim is adequate to induce a proclivity towards legitimizing violence.
The decision to nuance the narrative stemmed from strategic considerations. First, we aimed to assess if the mere presence of romantic themes in the narrative triggers the legitimization of IPV. By contrasting romantic and non-romantic motives across different relationship contexts, we aimed to elucidate the conditions under which romantic narratives influence attitudes toward violence. Second, including a contrast condition devoid of romantic motives and relationships highlighted the differential impact of romantic narratives. By comparing attitudes across varying status of romantic involvement, we aimed to uncover nuances in perceptions of violence and relationship dynamics. Finally, by controlling the information in narratives we minimized extraneous variables to isolate the effects of romantic motivations on IPV legitimization. This control provides clarity on the unique contributions of specific factors.
Procedure
The procedures for both experiments were almost identical. Participants were instructed to read three short journalistic pieces and respond to accompanying questions. The key article addressed a violent incident and was presented alongside two unrelated pieces (a sports event and an archaeological discovery) in a random order. The inclusion of non-criminal materials aimed to prevent conformist responses related to the need for social approval. Further details on the content of these pieces, used as experimental manipulations, are elaborated in specific sections for each experiment.
The entire procedure, administered through Qualtrics, averaged 6.5 minutes. Following each journalistic piece, participants answered a set of four questions in a predetermined order. For criminal materials, these questions served as measures of legitimization. The procedure was supplemented with an attention check task that appeared immediately after answering the key questions measuring the legitimization indicators.
Legitimization of IPV indicators
In both experiments, we operationalized legitimization in two ways. First, we assessed (1) personal accountability for intimate partner violence as perceived by participants. They were asked to rate the degree of accountability for both the offender and the victim on a scale from 0 to 100%. Additionally, we employed a more implicit measure of legitimization: (2) criminal accountability. This involved gauging how participants perceived the described violence in legal terms. Participants were required to indicate the anticipated length of the sentence the offender would face (from six months to five years) and severity of the punishment they thought the offender should face (on a scale from 1 – definitely not severe to 7 – definitely severe). The range of the scale for the estimations of the punishment length was based on the current penal code in Poland.
Committee for Ethics in Scientific Research at Faculty of Management and Social Communication, Jagiellonian University in Krakow approval for the project was granted on May 25, 2023.