The characteristics of the 16 participants are presented in Table 1. The average age was 81.9 years with the majority (11 participants) aged over 80 years. All the participants had at least two illnesses or chronic conditions. The participants generally had the ability to take care of themselves, but were unable to do activities such as cooking, cleaning the room or washing their clothes or take medication regularly. All the participants lived in shared rooms with other residents. The average length of stay in the LTC facility was 5.6 months with the majority (10 participants) living in the facility for less than 6 months. [INSERT TABLE 1 HERE]
The views and experiences of participants during relocation to the LTC facility reflected four interrelated key themes: wish to minimize the burden, but stay connected with the family; perceived barriers to adaptation; valuing tailored care; and acceptance and engagement. Each of these themes included several interrelated subthemes that influenced one another and represented the different stages in their personal relocation journey although there was no clear sequential order between the themes. These themes are presented in detail below supplemented with extracts from interviews.
Wish to minimize the burden, but stay connected with the family
The participants described how they experienced conflicting decisions between their desire to continue living in their family homes which they perceived as ideal and the need to avoid disrupting the lives of their families whom they depended upon for the activities of their daily living. Most participants viewed the relocation to the care facility as a way of minimizing the burden of their care from family members so that family members can continue with their own commitments without worrying about caring for them:
“I used to be in day care, but when I went back home at night, no one was home. My son and daughter-in-law are both very busy. Sometimes they go to Shanghai. Therefore, I can only live here.” (R11, Male, 87 years, living in the facility for 3 months)
However, they still desired to keep the connection with their family members and friends. In order to avoid alienating themselves from those who they were emotionally close, participants usually chose facilities in places nearby to where their family members or friends were residing or working:
“My daughter works nearby. She chose this place so she could visit me easily, even during her break at noon.” (R6, Female, 80 years, living in the facility for 3 months)
“I came here because I had a distant relative who was the head nurse here. She said it wasn’t bad here and said I should tell my grandson to bring me here.” (R2, Male, 88 years, living in the nursing home for 8 months)
There was a strong desire among almost all participants not to feel abandoned by their family members. There was also constant reflection of how much they cherished visits from family members and how important it was for them to continue receiving attention from family members who cared for them in the past:
“My family will come every day, they come here after they work at night, they will accompany me and chat with me, bring some food for me” (R2, Male, 88 years, living in the facility for 8 months)
“Whenever my daughter come, she will bring me to the garden at the back to walk, being in the sun, this is very good!” (R6, Female, 80 years, living in the facility for 3 months)
Some participants wished that their partner or spouse came and lived in the facility to keep the intimacy and connection:
“I am thinking that, if my wife comes and lives with me after she retires a few years from now, we can live here together as couple. I really wish my wife can live with me in the future so I can have company.” (R4, Male, 69 years, living in the facility for 10 months)
A few participants made active efforts to interact with other residents in the LTC facility with the view of making friendships in their new environment. Often there was a feeling that they have shared experiences and they would be able to understand each other’s concerns:
“I have made friends here! That old friend is really nice; everyone is very happy. Those elderly that been through pain, will then cherish the blessing, and can be nice with others.” (R8, Female, 86 years, living in the nursing home for 11 months)
Perceived barriers to adaptation
While there were varying reasons for relocation to the LTC facility including lack of family support and inability to perform self-care, the participants often experienced psychological resistance while making the decision to leave home and move to the facility. Fear of losing their autonomy and the ability to perform self-care was a major reason for the resistance to adapt to care facilities.
“After my stroke, I also thought about moving around to restore my mobility. But after I entered the facility, the environment was limited, and I was unable to practice walking.” (R1, Male, 83 years, living in the nursing home for 5 months)
Dislike or lack of trust in the care provider and facility inadequately meeting the care needs was also a perceived barrier running through the relocation process.
“When I came to this facility, my experience with the care providers was similar to my previous experience. I cannot trust those who take care of me.” (R5, Female, 79 years, living in the facility for 4 months)
Individual emotional reactions to new environments acted as perceived barriers to adaptation to the LTC facility environment for many participants. These emotional reactions were manifested in different ways. Many of the participants, especially those who have had physical and mental health issues, feared of being neglected and were concerned about their overall safety from injuries and accidents especially when they first arrived at the LTC facility:
“When I first came here, I didn’t know anyone, and I was afraid my family would neglect me. I am afraid the people here won’t take care of me, and I am afraid of falls.” (R3, Female, 88 years, living in the facility for 9 months)
Participants who struggled to adapt also expressed feelings of missing their home and their families, and their persistent desire to return home:
“When I first got here, I definitely missed home! When I miss home, I cry! I feel like I am just waiting to die!” (R9, Female, 90 years, living in the facility for 11 months)
The unfamiliar or uncomfortable environment of the LTC facility proved to be a shock for some participants in the initial months of their stay in the facility. Their perceptions of the new environment had a large impact on some participants who struggled to adapt to the differences between the facility and home. While all participants lived in shared rooms, they often felt they were living with strangers and reported problems such as difficulty sleeping due to disturbances from their roommates:
“Of course, when I first got here, I had difficulty adjusting to living here. I have many family members in my home, so it is very lively. When I got here, each person only has a bed. I didn’t know the people beside me, and I didn’t talk to them. I was very depressed and felt alone. During the next 3 days, I cried whenever I thought about my situation. (R6, Female, 80 years, living in the facility for 3 months)
“Some people here moan and make noise. Sometimes it is so noisy, I can’t sleep at night. The caregivers don’t have good manners. They chat loudly, even at night.” (R1, Male, 83 years, living in the nursing home for 5 months)
Valuing tailored care
The participants considered the provision of tailored care - including helping them to take their medication regularly, taking them to the doctor if needed, and preparing special meals according to their preferences - as valuable in their adaptation to the facility:
“I am a devoted Buddhist. They prepare vegetarian food for me every morning.” (R11, Male, 87 years, living in the facility for 3 months)
“I like to drink coffee. I need to drink many cups of coffee a day. They even help me buy more coffee when my coffee is finished.” (R4, Male, 69 years, living in the facility for 10 months)
Most of the participants valued not only the tailored physical care but also the emotional care that they received at the LTC facility. They recounted how they appreciated having nursing staff available to provide care and comfort suited to their individual needs:
“If you have a stomach ache, the nursing staff will come and show concern, console you, and take care of you.” (R8, Female, 86 years, living in the nursing home for 11 months)
Participants who were able to perform self-care appreciated the recognition from the nursing staff of their ability to perform self-care activities:
“I had my artificial anus for more than ten years. I’ve used different types, such as a clip and a stick. I don’t need them to teach me. All I need is scissors, and I can cut ostomy bag myself. The nurses said I am very good. They all said they will use my way to change ostomy bag. They say I am a professional! (laughs)” (R1, Male, 83 years, living in the nursing home for 5 months)
Most of the participants expressed appreciation for the nursing staff who showed concern and intimacy:
“All of their services are really good. They don’t get angry at us. We are all very harmonious. The nurses are really nice. They are nice to me. They greet me, and if I have any needs, they come and help me handle it quickly.” (R10, Female, 77 years, living in the facility for 11 months)
“They are like my grandson: very cordial and polite” (R9, Female, 90 years, living in the facility for 11 months)
Acceptance and engagement
Participants who lived relatively longer in the facility appeared to be more positive in their views about their life in the LTC facility. There were recurring views among these participants that they were living in a safe environment. They perceived that the physical infrastructure of the LTC - including vacant space to walk around and having railing to hold on to - was tailored to the needs of the elderly and this was seen to be important to keep them safe from falls and injuries:
“Environment is very safe, room, bathroom, any place is all flat, there are fence on the side that you can support on. I haven’t [had a] fall here, safety is what I think done very good in this place.” (R2, Male, 88 years, living in the nursing home for 8 months)
The availability of staff to call for in the event of an injury or a fall was another factor that was perceived as crucial. The provision of various activities that are interesting to elderly and the support to participate in these activities was seen as a major factor behind the acceptance of the facility:
“There are more people here, they hold activities every day, have karaoke, have big television, have Bingo, have sport, many types of activities, make the elderly feel interested.” (R4, Male, 69 years, living in the facility for 10 months)
The comments of some participants reflected their decision to face the challenge of relocation by trying to accept their stay in the facility and to adapt themselves to the new environment due to their needs for constant care. As a mark of successful adaptation and assimilation, they remarked that they saw the LTC facility as their second home and envisaged themselves to be living in the facility for the rest of their lives:
“I am very used to living here. It’s just like my home. I even thought of staying here during new year! It’s more lively here!” (R8, Female, 86 years, living in the nursing home for 11 months)
“When I came, I found they can provide me meal and insulin injection regularly, and the risk of coma (due to hypoglycemia) could be prevented. So I found stay here wasn’t bad, and better safety than home. I thought I should try it and see if I like it. So, I haven’t left!” (R7, Female, 89 years, living in the nursing home for 5 months)
“I had a stroke, which was very inconvenient for me. I am afraid that I cannot do activity of daily life by myself. After I got discharged from the hospital, my family took me here. In this setting, they provide care for me and prevent accidents happen to me. I need to stay here, and it isn’t bad for me and my family!” (R9, Female, 90 years, living in the facility for 11 months)