4.1 Main findings
A strong influence on the desire to live or die was whether family responsibilities were fulfilled, arising from a socio-culturally driven discourse in India on the role and meaning of being a parent [24]. Embedded in the notion of dharma (justice/truth), doing right by one’s family is believed to be a crucial step on the path to moksha (salvation), the ultimate goal of human life [18]. Although emerging from Hindu philosophy, these precepts have been absorbed into the Indian way of living over centuries. Chakkarath argues that the transportation of religious beliefs into social values and structures has rendered the boundaries between religion and society nearly non-existent, dating back to the sage Manu’s manava dharma shastra (a compilation of “rules of conduct”) in the second century BC [18]. Parents in India—particularly fathers—are obligated to provide for and protect their children which translates to educating the child well enough to be employed and marrying them off [18, 24, 25].
For women, a less compelling but equally important path to moksha is a responsibility to die as a sumangali (a married woman), an auspicious facet of womanhood which positions her as a soubhagyavathi (a fortunate woman) [26, 27], who is expected to perform various rituals (e.g., karwa chauth) to prolong their husband’s life [26] and ensure their sumangali status. Being sumangali also indicates her commitment to her family and her good fortune. In this study, female participants may have interpreted their life and death in terms of their marital status. Married women viewing death as a sign of their virtuousness and the widowed women as a relief from their feelings of worthlessness, which helps them cope with their impending death. Despite India’s burgeoning modernity, these findings reveal socio-culturally ingrained notions around power and gender.
Contrasting this, only male participants demonstrated a fighting spirit, holding that hopelessness constituted surrender to the cancer. Hope was a resource for fighting cancer in the Australian study but there were no gender differences [1, 4]. It is possible that the desire to maintain a fighting spirit reflects powerful male stereotypes of being courageous or resilient in the face of misfortunes [28] but seeing them relatively unprepared to accept inescapable loss or adversity. In India, there is a strong expectation that men should uphold a fearless and stoic attitude when encountering difficulties or hardships and this is an expected coping strategy [29]. These findings challenge previous psycho-oncology research in India reporting that cancer patients have a pessimistic and fatalistic attitude towards cancer [30, 31]. However, they may be understood through the sense of coherence (SOC) theoretical framework proposed by Antonovsky which explains how individuals handle crisis or adversity [32]. This framework consists of 3 components of comprehensibility (i.e., the crisis/adversity is explicable), manageability (i.e., one has resources to handle the demands the crisis/adversity places on them) and meaningfulness (i.e., these demands are worth the individual’s emotional investment) [33]. Previous qualitative research argued that adopting a fighting spirit helps patients to view cancer as a challenge and lends them a sense of purpose or meaning [34, 35]. Similarly, patients in the current study may be both finding and demonstrating value in their life (i.e., meaning) by fighting for it.
Strikingly, pain, which compromised quality of life and caused existential anguish, was the only experience which brought about a favourable attitude towards euthanasia among some participants in this study. These findings concur with previous research in Asia suggesting that pain during the end of life was a prominent and compelling reason for wanting to hasten death, precluding attainment of a good death [36, 37]. Patients coped with this wish to hasten death by rationalizing it as a common facet of human life. Interestingly, though Eliott and colleagues [1, 4] noted that patients with cancer hoped to live without pain, they did not observe any link between changes in hope attributable to pain, suggesting that perhaps Australian patients may have access to better pain management than Indian patients. However, pain was associated with endorsement of euthanasia as well as wishing, or attempting, to die [2]. In a systematic review and meta-ethnography on understanding the desire to hasten death, Rodríguez-Prat and colleagues reported that suffering was a central theme affecting patients’ physical, psychological, social, and existential domains, whilst negatively impacting on patients’ self-identity and self-respect—two fundamental areas of one’s sense of self [38]. Similarly, patients in this study perceived suffering to undermine their personhood, taking away their self-control and replacing it with helplessness, and, in some cases, resulting in suicidal ideation. Despite this, all believed that mercy-killing was socially unacceptable, suggesting the pervasive nature of this societal norm in India. This belief was not unfounded: research with Indian doctors [39], nurses [40], and patients [41] reported strong disapproval of euthanasia. This was due in part to the cultural reluctance to talk about death, because discussing one’s mortality is an apashagun (inauspicious) [19]. Interestingly, while some patients in the current study endorsed euthanasia, they felt that legalising it would reflect badly upon the Indian government. This shows that they were unaware of the ongoing national debate in India on the legalization of passive euthanasia [42]. However, they also equated the concept of DNR orders (to limit cardiopulmonary resuscitation) with euthanasia. Most Australian patients did not confuse these topics and typically favoured both [2, 4]. It seems plausible that the influence of socially driven values on the topic of euthanasia may overshadow or even shape the law in India; at a minimum, legislators will need to consider the broader socio-cultural fabric of India.
Notwithstanding patients’ desire to live or die, all believed that this was a decision left to God with no significant role for them. Spiritual coping is a well-researched and key coping mechanism among Indian cancer patients [43]. However, these findings are in sharp contrast to those of Olver and colleagues (2002, 2008) who reported that patients wished to exercise the right to decide how they died and viewed it as their responsibility to do so [2, 4]. These contrasting findings indicate the need for, and benefits of, cross-cultural research, in formulating end-of-life policy.
To our knowledge, this is the first qualitative study emerging from India to shed light on how God is conceptualized in the contexts of the end-of-life. Patients described God’s power over them vividly, often referring to God as the one who gave them life, has rights on how and when they die, and who provides all-powerful support in the face of imminent death. This perceived support from God took several forms: attributing an external locus of control for the cancer and poor prognosis, creating a sense of dignity (i.e., feeling they might be chosen if their life was extended) and, most importantly, working to provide an anchor during times of despair. Therefore, it is likely that assigning decisions about life and death to God was not a sign of passivity or fatalism among these patients, but a source of strength, meaning, hope and an opportunity to feel tethered to something greater than oneself.
4.2 Implications
The current study indicates minimal state support available for Indian citizens, as evident in patients’ strong sense of responsibility towards their families and their encounters with pain. Government action to enable improved pain management is required. It may be that the philosophizing of religious scriptures masks the limited social security in India such that families are expected to fend for themselves should a crisis befall them. Consequently, this sense of parental responsibility may function as a politically endorsed mechanism to encourage beliefs in the dharma cycles. Future research should unpack patients’ needs, perceptions, and expectations of government support in order to inform policy development and practice regarding end-of-life care.
Additionally, there is a need to provide psychological support to Indian patients at the end-of-life, and communication skills training for care seekers and providers as shown by female patients’ reasons for desiring death, male patients’ adopting a fighting spirit, reports of existential suffering due to pain. It may be useful to introduce gender-specific support groups; for example, support groups for men can aim to balance their fighting spirit with a realistic understanding of their prognosis to better prepare them for their impending death. Support groups for women could center on exploring their feelings regarding living and dying as a social/family experience, to counter any devaluing of their own life.
Recommended skills for doctors include asking patients nearing death about pain, empathizing with the ensuing suffering, exploring patients’ quality of life, and identifying and referring patients in psychological distress to a psychologist or counsellor. Introducing conversations about God at a particular point in the illness trajectory can help patients to utilize their faith in God as a coping tool. Skills for patients can include strategies to help them share their experiences with pain with the doctor and ask questions on pain management. Those experiencing existential anguish may benefit from psychotherapies such as dignity therapy which focusses on the suffering caused in dying by affirming the individual’s sense of dignity, thus reducing psychological and existential distress [44].
Finally, apart from conceptualizing hope as a resource for fighting disease/death, these study findings contrast with previous research on hope and attitudes towards DNR orders [1–3] among Australian cancer patients. This underscores the need for, and benefits of, cross-cultural research in elucidating differences and similarities in perspectives on end-of-life experiences and decision-making. Future research should explore the role of acculturation regarding these concepts and practices among Indian immigrants living in Australia or elsewhere, to understand the extent to which one’s culture of birth and that of their host country shape these perceptions.
4.3 Strengths and limitations
This study used a qualitative methodology, and although offering a rich understanding of the end-of-life experiences of Indian cancer patients, in order to generalise the findings, quantitative research could further examine the extent of and relationships between pain, coping, psychological distress, and attitudes towards euthanasia and DNR orders. More detail is required on patients’ ability to obtain pain relief, given evidence that nearly 97% of Indian cancer patients have poor or no access to pain-relieving drugs such as morphine, despite court orders to improve the availability of these drugs [45]. Future research should explore end-of-life experiences among Indian women in different relationship statuses, such as singles and divorcees. Other aspects of patients’ advance planning (e.g., financial) could also be examined. Finally, future research will also benefit from exploring care providers’ (family and doctor) experiences of, and views on, caring for a patient at the end-of-life, pain management, euthanasia, and DNR orders.