Study design
We conducted an inductive longitudinal (three-wave) qualitative study, using in-depth interviews with pregnant women and women with new-born babies. The study was designed to understand women’s experiences at three critical timepoints: in pregnancy, during labour and after childbirth, and the 12 months postnatal period.
Study setting
The study was conducted in Bradford, a large ethnically diverse city in the North of England, with an estimated population of 542,100 (the fifth largest local authority in England) [38]. During the coronavirus pandemic, Bradford experienced a relatively high number of COVID-19 cases compared with the rest of the UK [39]. High rates of COVID-19 in areas like Bradford were linked to greater deprivation, high population density and a higher-than-average number of multi-generational households [40].
Sampling and recruitment
The Born in Bradford (BIB) cohort study, hosted by the NHS, is an internationally recognised research programme tracking in detail the lives of over 30,000 Bradfordians to find out what influences the health and wellbeing of families [41]. Women enrolled in two BiB cohorts (Born in Bradford’s Better Start (BiBBS) and BiB4All) were invited to participate in the BiB COVID-19 research study - a longitudinal mixed-methods study exploring the health, social, and economic impacts of the COVID-19 pandemic, from May 2020 onwards [42]. A purposive sample of women (identified by HS and LS) who had completed the survey between May and October 2020 were invited to participate in this qualitative study with the intention of achieving a mix of ethnicity, parity, and deprivation status. Women who did not speak English were oversampled, as we were particularly interested in their experiences. The BIB team sent 47 women a study information sheet and then followed-up by telephone 1-2 weeks later to ask if they would be interested in taking part. Those indicating interest gave verbal permission for their contact details to be passed to the researcher (JB, ND) who then phoned them and scheduled the first interview at their convenience.
Data collection
Wave 1 interviews took place from May to November 2020, Wave 2 from February to May 2021 and Wave 3 from August to October 2021. Interview length was between 37 and 105 minutes. Given the restrictions on face-to-face contact, all interviews took place by telephone. JB conducted the interviews in English and ND conducted the interviews in Urdu. Verbal, informed consent was obtained from each participant. The interviews were digitally recorded and transcribed verbatim. Interviews in Urdu were translated and transcribed directly into English. Given this was a longitudinal study, the 18 women who took part in the first wave of interviews were re-contacted via a telephone call or text message by the same researcher to take part in a second and third interview.
Interview questions
All interviews were conducted using a topic guide, with questions derived from recent literature on the topic and informed by the larger mixed-methods study [42]. However, the format was flexible to allow participants to voice what they considered important. Each wave of interviewing focused on women’s experiences at a discrete time point: wave 1 on pregnancy, labour and birth, wave 2 on the first six months post-birth and wave 3 on 6-12 months post-birth. At each wave the key topics explored were physical health and mental wellbeing; access to and use of services; relationships with partner and family; and general impact of the COVID-19 pandemic on these experiences.
Analysis
Framework analysis was undertaken [43]. For each wave of interviews a sub-group of the research team (JB, MB, DG, CJ, ET) read a third of transcripts to develop the coding framework. Transcripts were then coded against the agreed coding framework using Dedoose software. Key themes and patterns within these themes were identified and differences in responses between ethnicity and parity explored. Preliminary findings were discussed with the full research team after which the themes were finalised and written up. The final step was a longitudinal synthesis. The data from each wave were synthesised (by CJ, HS, LS) to identify over-arching themes that captured women’s views and experiences of pregnancy, childbirth, and having a new baby during 18 months of a global pandemic.
Context of the COVID-19 pandemic during the study period
Wave 1 interviews, and the months prior on which women reflected, (February to November 2020) took place during the first nine months of the pandemic. During this time the first national lockdown was introduced (26 March 2020) with pregnant women advised to “shield” at home until the end of May. Gradual opening of schools and shops, as well as lifting of social contact restrictions commenced from June. In mid-October a three-tier alert system was introduced whereby different areas were allocated to a tier (set of restrictions) according to their COVID-19 situation; Bradford entered tier 3 (very high alert) [44]. The national modifications to antenatal and postnatal services [1,2,6,9,45] were in place in Bradford. These included closure of homebirth services until end June 2020, and partners only being allowed for 12-week scans and to attend during active labour until end September 2020. The second national lockdown commenced on 5 November 2020 [44].
Wave 2 interviews, and the months prior (September 2020 to May 2021) were carried out at the end of the second lockdown (2 December 2020) and return to the tier alert system. Restrictions were relaxed in December 2020 for most of England, with Bradford re-entering Tier 3 at the end of December. The third national lockdown commenced 6 January 2021. The “roadmap for lifting lockdown” occurred in March to May, when there was a gradual opening of society and restrictions for social contact were lessened [44]. During this time partners could attend all stages of labour (from end September 2020) and all antenatal scans from end January 2021.
In Wave 3 and the months prior (March to October 2021) legal limits on social contact ended and the final closed sectors of the economy re-opened (July to September 2021) [44]. The maternity services protocols in place at the end of Wave 2 remained.
Findings
Participant characteristics
Eighteen women were interviewed in wave one, 13 in wave two and 14 in wave three (see Table 1). Of the 18 women recruited at wave one, eight were White British, nine were of Pakistani heritage and one was White European. Two thirds had been born in Bradford. Two women of Pakistani heritage were interviewed in Urdu. Nearly two thirds had older children, most commonly one child. Nearly two thirds had professional or office jobs. The average age of women at first interview was 31.5 years.
[Table 1 here]
Table 1. Participant characteristics
ID
|
Interviews completed
|
Age at first interview (years)
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Ethnicity
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First child/has other children
|
Number of other children
|
Born in Bradford?
|
Employment
|
Partner’s employment
|
W01
|
1, 2, 3
|
27
|
White European
|
First child
|
N/A
|
No
|
Retail
|
Transport
|
W02
|
1, 2, 3
|
35
|
Pakistani Heritage
|
First child
|
N/A
|
No
|
Business
|
Hospitality
|
W03
|
1, 2, 3
|
28
|
White British
|
Other children
|
One
|
Yes
|
Administration
|
Health and fitness
|
W04
|
1, 2, 3
|
39
|
White British
|
Other children
|
One
|
No
|
Education
|
Administration
|
W05
|
1
|
30
|
Pakistani Heritage
|
First child
|
N/A
|
Yes
|
NHS
|
Education
|
W06
|
1 ,2 ,3
|
36
|
Pakistani Heritage
|
Other children
|
One
|
Yes
|
Administration
|
NHS
|
W07
|
1
|
28
|
White British
|
First child
|
N/A
|
Yes
|
Financial services
|
Private sector
|
W08
|
1, 2, 3
|
32
|
White British
|
First child
|
N/A
|
Yes
|
Public sector
|
Private sector
|
W09
|
1, 3
|
28
|
Pakistani Heritage
|
Other children
|
Two
|
No
|
N/A
|
Retail
|
W10
|
1, 2
|
33
|
White British
|
Other children
|
One
|
Yes
|
Health and fitness
|
Public sector
|
W11
|
1, 2, 3
|
39
|
White British
|
Other children
|
Three
|
Yes
|
Public sector
|
Private sector
|
W12
|
1, 2, 3
|
31
|
Pakistani Heritage
|
Other children
|
Two
|
Yes
|
Health and fitness
|
Transport
|
W13
|
1, 2, 3
|
28
|
White British
|
Other children
|
One
|
Yes
|
Education
|
Transport
|
W14
|
1
|
32
|
White British
|
Other children
|
Three
|
Yes
|
N/A
|
Education
|
W15
|
1, 2, 3
|
25
|
Pakistani Heritage
|
First child
|
N/A
|
Yes
|
Education
|
Civil service
|
W16*
|
1, 3
|
34
|
Pakistani Heritage
|
Other children
|
One
|
No
|
N/A
|
Hospitality
|
W17*
|
1, 2, 3
|
30
|
Pakistani Heritage
|
Other children
|
Three
|
No
|
N/A
|
Retail
|
W18
|
1**, 2, 3
|
26
|
Pakistani Heritage
|
First child
|
N/A
|
Yes
|
Public sector
|
NHS
|
*Interviews conducted in Urdu. **No transcript.
We describe below what was important to women in their maternity journey during the pandemic, in their own words, using verbatim quotes to illustrate key points. Three aspects were identified as particularly important: women feared being alone at critical points in their maternity journey; the pandemic created new norms for maternity services and women’s care; and finding ways to navigate the COVID-19 pandemic in pregnancy and with a new baby. Each theme (and sub-theme) includes data from across the three waves, and where there are differences in perspectives by ethnicity or parity these are described.
Theme 1: Women feared being alone at critical points in their maternity journey
This theme represents the persistent underlying narrative that women feared “being alone” during their pregnancy journey and at critical points in their routine care. The fear of not being with their partner was felt most acutely during pregnancy and when attending antenatal care. Women’s accounts also highlighted how aspects of women-centred care were often compromised, for example continuity of care and effective information and communication.
Fear of being alone was felt most acutely during pregnancy
For most women not having a partner with them at routine 12 and 20-week scans made a difference to how they felt and coped. Women described their feelings about being alone for these appointments as “terrifying”, “scary”, “daunting”, “freaked out” and “horrendous”. They mainly worried about receiving bad news alone or having to break bad news to their partner. Women were also mindful of their partner “being pushed out”, which was manifest in not hearing the baby’s heartbeat, not being present to learn the baby’s sex and being unable to ask their own questions.
It was hard because I couldn’t have my husband coming with me, like for the appointments, so I wanted to share it with him, but I couldn’t because he wasn’t allowed in. He couldn’t see the gender reveal scan and he couldn’t come to any of the antenatal appointments. And if I had like a worry, say if I couldn’t feel his [the baby’s] heartbeat, and I had to go in there on my own, like all scared and stuff. No-one there, for me it was a bit, yeah, daunting, like not a nice experience.
(W15, Pakistani Heritage, First-time mother, Wave 1)
Having a partner present during labour and childbirth made an important difference to women
A common worry expressed by women was that they would have to experience labour and childbirth alone. Many described how they had attended the assessment and birth centres alone, with their partners allowed to accompany them once, during active labour. Some recalled partners waiting outside the facility in their cars to be called in. A few women had spent long periods of time (e.g. six hours, 24 hours, overnight) during labour on their own.
During my induction, my husband wasn’t allowed to be there, and I wasn’t happy with that because I would have liked him to be there for support. So he was only able to come down after they had taken me down to the labour ward to break my waters. I was alone a whole day. I felt quite, sort of, you know, anxious and I just felt as though I didn’t have any support with me.
(W05, Pakistani Heritage, First-time mother, Wave 1)
In contrast, women whose partners had been with them throughout labour and birth recounted more positive experiences. One woman described herself as “lucky” because the hospital restrictions had changed a few weeks before, and another was relieved that her partner could be with her commenting that “If he wasn’t there, I don’t think it would have been as positive as it was”.
Most women said they accepted restrictions that meant their partners could only stay for a few hours after the birth, although some felt “disappointed” and “upset” that their partners were unable to support them. In two exceptional cases, partners had stayed for a whole day after the birth, and these women were “grateful” for their support.
Aspects of women-centred care were compromised
Women had a strong preference for face-to-face appointments, especially during pregnancy, which gave them “peace of mind”, left them reassured and confident that they had had a “proper check-up”. Some described feeling “pushed out” and “unsupported” by telephone appointments, typically commenting on the lack of physical examinations. Irrespective of whether this was a woman’s first or subsequent pregnancy, all believed that only having phone appointments would likely be hardest for those in their first pregnancy. Similarly, whilst women described online antenatal classes as “informative” and “enjoyable”, they missed being supported in person with practical hands-on experience, having opportunities to discuss issues with the midwife and to share experiences with other new parents.
I’ve had a very easy pregnancy, I’ve not had no problems so I’ve felt OK, but I just feel like I don’t see how a midwife can see if you’re OK over the phone. They can’t. They can’t check your urine, they can’t check your blood pressure, they can’t check anything, all they can do is say, ‘are you okay’? (W03, White British, Mother with other children, Wave 1)
We did like an antenatal course but it was all just via Zoom so it wasn’t, it didn’t feel as maybe hands-on and practical as it could have been but obviously that’s just the way it had to be. But if you were there meeting the other couples and the lady running the course it could have been different. The face-to-face contact was missing. (W02, Pakistani Heritage, First-time mother, Wave 2)
Women clearly valued continuity of care with the same midwife, but most had seen several different midwives during their pregnancy. Consequently, they felt they had not developed a relationship with “their” midwife. Those who attended appointments via GP practices were more likely to see the same midwife consistently, and for these women the benefit was clear.
Yeah, I didn’t have anyone familiar and that was a bit upsetting. I thought I’d have someone, and I’ll be happy but to be honest with you one went on a holiday, one’s pregnant, she’s working from home. I don’t know whether, maybe some of them were not working on that day if you know what I’m saying. (W09, Pakistani Heritage, Mother with other children, Wave 1)
I was lucky with her too because she’s been my midwife all the way through my pregnancy and then on the day that I go into labour, well yeah, she’s there and she was the one that delivered my baby. I couldn’t believe it because, you know, I know her and she kind of knows me. Because obviously you get, over the nine months you get to kind of know each other and it was like, and it just, as soon as I saw her face it was like all my anxieties disappeared.
(W06, Pakistani Heritage, Mother with other children, Wave 1)
Government information about COVID-19, especially how it affected pregnant women, was said to be insufficient, unclear and constantly changing, and this intensified women’s worry and anxiety. Whilst acknowledging that everyone (including health workers) was “in the dark” with this new situation, women found midwives’ apparent lack of knowledge about how COVID-19 affects pregnant women and their unborn/new-born babies, alongside constantly changing hospital protocols, stressful.
Pregnant women felt their mental health deteriorated early in the pandemic
Two-thirds of women reported they had experienced low mood and/or anxiety during their pregnancy. Some related this to “being in the house all the time”, while for others, the fear and experience of being alone, unsupported by their partner and midwife had contributed to their low mood or anxiety. The general lack of accurate and up to date information had intensified the deterioration of some women’s mental health, and for one woman the constantly shifting rules and hospital restrictions left her feeling like she had no control over her pregnancy and birthing plan.
I was very teary, very, very teary. I had panic attacks. I’d never had a panic attack before. I think it was the restrictions placed on us. I felt out of control and I felt panicked about what was going to happen. I felt like we’re going into the complete unknown with this baby compared to the other babies and I didn’t know how my maternity leave was going to go. I didn’t know how life was going to be, but just the waiting to hear on the news what I was allowed and not allowed to do, I think that had a bigger impact than I imagined it would do.
(W11, White British, Mother with other children, Wave 1)
Theme 2: The pandemic created new norms for maternity services and women’s care
The substantial and rapid changes to maternity services during the COVID-19 pandemic inevitably affected women’s experiences. Women described the elements of care that were important to them, as well as the service changes that negatively impacted on the care they received.
Perceptions of reconfigured services
Overall, most women were positive about the care received in antenatal services, at the time of birth and immediately after. The consensus was that antenatal care services had adapted well and continued to provide a professional service, and that staff were “doing their best”.
I think they’ve been brilliant, you wouldn’t know they’ve been affected, even though you know they have, even though I know like the midwives last week said they’ve got like loads of staff off, and she went, yeah, I’ve just pulled a 24-hour shift. And just still being professional through it all, and yeah, they’re just brilliant. (W04, White British, First-time mother, Wave 1)
Later in the pandemic, when women had given birth, they tended to acknowledge the impact of the pandemic on postnatal care and women recognised the challenges faced by the NHS.
I'd say they're doing like really well just to say that they've literally been thrown into it. To organise appointments and things like that, they really have done like the best that they can to ensure like the safety... I feel quite happy about the situation really. To say like it's been really tough on everybody, like the way the healthcare services have adapted.
(W13, White British, Mother with other children, Wave 2)
Women mostly considered themselves and their new-born babies safe from COVID-19 and expressed confidence in hospital procedures; two thirds considered themselves and their new-born to be safe in hospital, trusting COVID-19 protocols. The other third was nervous about the risk of coronavirus infection and the impact of COVID-19 restrictions.
I thought it was really safe. I’d already been [in hospital] in the summer when I’d got a kidney infection, and I knew that they were testing routinely for COVID. I knew I’d not been in contact with anyone with COVID. Erm… every time I’d been in for an appointment, I was wearing a mask, everyone was like wearing masks and being really safe. Obviously, I was nowhere near a COVID ward because the maternity unit is completely separate from everything else, so, actually, it was probably safer. (W04, White British, First-time mother, Wave 2)
I was nervous about it. You know even in the corridor when I was passing somebody or even when I had the baby, you know, people were coming to check on her, you know, they had PPE (personal protective equipment) on, everything like that. I just felt conscious about everything, with the whole COVID thing, I didn’t want to be in hospital longer than I needed to. (W06, White British, Mother with other children, Wave 2)
Women bore the brunt of rapid changes to postnatal care and community-based services
Women generally had positive interactions with midwives and health visitors in the first eight weeks after birth, and most accepted that seeing a different midwife in the community as “the norm” now. Two women felt more anxious about receiving care from a “new” midwife and believed that information around new-born care conflicted with what had been imparted by midwives in hospital.
I were a bit disappointed afterwards because it were a different midwife that I were seeing every time they’d come, it were never the same one and they were, sort of, telling me something different every time which, because obviously there were a different person. So it were just confusing and it didn’t make it any easier on the situation, whereas if it would have been one person and they were telling me the same thing every time I could have stuck to it or whatever. (W10, White British, Mother with other children, Wave 2)
Up to half of the women felt that health visitors were less present than midwives, made fewer contacts and relied more on phone communication. The lack of face-to-face contact with health visitors was particularly problematic for women who felt physical checks of the baby and mother were important, and they valued the opportunity to discuss more “intimate” matters in the first few weeks after giving birth. However, there did appear to be more continuity of care with health visitors, which allowed women to build a stronger and more familiar relationship with the same health visitor and was considered important for good quality care.
Women described a lack of support between the 6-8 week and 6–9-month postnatal contacts. Many women wanted more contact between these scheduled visits and missed the reassurance that health visitors provide.
Then the health visitor came, she gave me all the stuff for six months, and said, “I probably won’t see you again”, and I’ve not heard from her. Which is really scary. I worry about all those mothers that are, that need a bit of support or, and they haven’t got a health visitor checking in, not even a phone call until six months. (W04, White British, First-time mother, Wave 2)
New mothers particularly missed the reassurance that their baby was developing satisfactorily, and that they were “doing a good job”. They also wanted advice on feeding, weaning and sleeping. Several women mentioned wanting to have their baby weighed, with a few recalling the drop-in clinics they had attended with previous children. Some women reported seeking informal support and information from other sources including Google, Facebook groups for parents, friends and family members with children and a few weighed the baby themselves for “peace of mind”. Women who mentioned this self-help approach generally said they would have preferred professional input.
There have been no calls to make sure of anything which, which yeah you are then left on your own. Nobody really discussed weaning, how to wean your kid onto solids. I would have appreciated more support in the first year, just to check him up in-between, make sure he's developing okay because yeah, I know what he's like as a child but I don’t know what's happening inside his body. I don't know if everything's normal. (W02, Pakistani Heritage, First-time mother, Wave 2)
Women also described positive experiences with health visitors. Half the women, predominantly of Pakistani Heritage, had contacted or tried to contact the health visitor team between scheduled visits. Most had been given a number to use and were satisfied with the support they had received. Two other women, both with older children, appreciated having longer pre-scheduled conversations with a health visitor, and telephone breastfeeding support respectively. A common view was that accessing infant vaccinations was “pretty straightforward”; and face-to-face visits by the health visitors at 6-9 months were also well received, providing the reassurance the mothers had been seeking. Women typically saw a different health visitor to the one they had seen for the earlier visits, but many seemed to accept this as “the norm”.
I’m a confident mum and I know kind of that he’s healthy and thriving I just wanted somebody else to check him over, so she [the health visitor] did come, and she was fine with it. She didn’t stay very long but she confirmed everything I thought that he was, you know, healthy and developing really well. (W11, White British, Mother with other children, Wave 3)
Frustration with GP appointment booking and seeking alternatives
In the last wave of interviews, when most COVID-19 restrictions had lifted, women expressed frustration with accessing GP services. Women, mainly White British women with more than one child, complained about the booking process; they were weary of the time it took to get through on the telephone to speak with a receptionist. Some found alternatives to the GP, for example seeking pharmacist advice on whether a baby had chicken pox, asking a homoeopath to treat a baby’s rash or phoning 111. Whilst women we spoke to seemed to accept the inevitability of remote consultations, several complained that their requests to see a doctor face-to-face with their baby had been declined. Women wanted their judgement, as mothers, to be trusted about when their child should be seen by a doctor in-person.
I don’t mind the telephone calls and the video calls for other things because it's actually quicker and more effective when I don’t actually need to see someone every time, but it would be useful if they trust kind of parent’s judgement as to when we do need to be seen.
(W11, White British, Mother with other children, Wave 3)
Theme 3: Finding ways to navigate the COVID-19 pandemic in pregnancy and with a new baby
At each timepoint women revealed numerous examples of having to find their way, or steer themselves through, new or unknown circumstances associated with the pandemic. In this theme we identify a continuum of ‘navigating the pandemic’ from adapting to being labelled “at risk” during pregnancy, to navigating birth preparation decisions, and finally women steering themselves through the COVID-19 recovery period with a new baby.
Adapting to being labelled “at risk” during pregnancy
Many women recalled feeling anxious early in the pandemic when pregnant women were labelled “at risk” and required to shield at home. This was fuelled by an absence of information about the risks to themselves and their unborn babies, some panic amongst family members and "a sort of paranoia” about performing thorough preventive measures to protect themselves. When shielding at home in pregnancy, for some, their personal relationships became stronger, and they valued the opportunity to spend more time as a family. However, feelings of isolation were common and the inability to change routine or take a break from family was a challenge for some. Many women anticipated pregnancy being an exciting time but had not experienced this, and comparisons with previous pregnancies were generally negative. One woman described going through her pregnancy “in hiding”. Whilst most had kept in touch with close family and friends via telephone and video calls, they missed the impromptu advice and unspoken support afforded by in-person meetings.
It was quite scary, to be honest, because obviously I was on the shielding list, and I didn’t go out anywhere. And there was just such a big sort of scare about the whole virus that you were just…reluctant to do anything, to go anywhere.
(W05, Pakistani Heritage, First-time mother, Wave 1)
If anything, we’ve kind of enjoyed it, like having that time together. Because usually we’re kind of like, you know, he’s at work, I’m at work, we come back, we eat, we sleep, that kind of thing, but because both of us have been working at home and we’ve had a lot more time together than we would normally have. (W06, Pakistani Heritage, Mother with other children, Wave 1)
Navigating birth preparation decisions during the pandemic
It was clear that many women, especially those with other children, were making different decisions during pregnancy to those they would have made outside of a pandemic. Examples included partners living away for periods of time to ensure the woman’s safety leaving one feeling like a “single mum”, and conversely family members moving in to be available for childcare when the woman went into labour (otherwise not permitted during the first lockdown). Some felt uncomfortable that they might need to “break the rules” but could see no alternative.
That’s probably hardest thing because you get fined for this and you get fined for that. I understand why they put them measures into place but if my husband can’t get home in time [when I go into labour], who do I have here with me to help support me when no-one’s allowed in my house? (W10, White British, Mother with other children, Wave 2)
A few cited the pandemic as the reason for choosing a home birth. Having the baby at home felt safer, more relaxed in terms of social distancing measures, easier in terms of childcare and their partner could be there throughout. There were also examples of women making decisions to avoid “being alone” in hospital. Examples included staying at home longer when having contractions and leaving hospital soon after the baby was born despite wanting to stay.
I wasn’t happy. I felt sort of, you know, anxious and I just felt as though I didn’t have any support with me [for a whole day after being induced]. Now, because it was my first baby, ideally, I would have liked to have stayed in hospital to get a bit more support, a bit more advice. But because my partner wasn’t able to stay, nobody was able to come visit, I opted to go home. So, I gave birth and literally a few hours later, I went home because I wasn’t willing to just stay on my own.
(W05, Pakistani Heritage, First-time mother, Wave 2)
Navigating social interaction for mental wellbeing
Descriptions of the early months with a new baby included “hard”, “quite lonely”, “draining and isolating” and “claustrophobic”. Many women reflected on the stress and low mood associated with feeling exhausted from caring for a new-born alongside feelings of isolation. They typically relied on their partner or their wider (mostly remote) network of family and friends for “off-loading” and support. WhatsApp and Facebook groups enabled them to share and receive advice and ask questions to other parents.
You’re just trapped with a baby, you know, you’re just, it’s just you and a baby and suddenly you’ve got this thing to look after, and you’ve got no one else to bounce off or just whinge at or, who’s going through it the same time as you. (W04, White British, Mother with other children, Wave 2)
Now that we can’t meet, we speak only on WhatsApp. We post pictures, and I started giving him food and the one who is two weeks less than us, her, she started to give food to the baby, so we post what we give, and we speak on WhatsApp, and things like that, so we still keep in touch and give advice. (W01, White European, First-time mother, Wave 2)
During the interviews in summer 2021, women were noticeably more positive in mood and expressed better mental health. Much of this change was attributed to easing of restrictions, being able to see friends and family, access informal support and plan holidays. They talked about attending social activities such as mother and baby groups, swimming pools and indoor soft play centres. Just a few felt “wary” or “scared” of crowded places and exposing their baby to new germs, although in general these feelings were subsiding over time.
I think I’ve started to feel better about everything actually, I was feeling a bit doom and gloom before because it was a bit like oh, what, I don’t have anything to look forward to and you know, what’s going on and I want to go away and I want to do this and I want to do that. I think because there is going to be some changes coming up for me and I am going to kind of be getting out the house, there is going to be you know, something different.
(W06, Pakistani Heritage, Mother with other children, Wave 3)
The importance of having somewhere to go with a new baby was clear. Many were mindful of the impact social restrictions had had on their baby’s social development, describing them as “clingy” and worrying that the baby did not know how to play with others. Most were pleased to now have an opportunity to expose the baby to other people, some observing that their babies were “happy” and “excited” to be around other children. Few opportunities to make friends with other parents having a baby at the same time was a recurring topic from the first interviews. However, by the final interview women began talking about enjoying chatting with other mums and arranging to meet up again.
It’s been a lot better to be honest with you because I found that I’ve been able to get him into more classes for more interaction with other people, more interactions with babies, being able to take him to play groups and like swimming, you know, just to give him a bit more experience because obviously for the first six months he didn’t have anything other than either going for a walk.
(W08, White British, First-time mother, Wave 3)