Infertility treatment process, situations such as uncertainty, anxieties for the future, hopelessness, and insufficient social support can cause mental problems in couples. Perceived social support is very important for couples to cope with this difficult process. Many studies emphasize that as the level of social support perceived by infertile couples increases, their psychological problems decrease and treatment success increases [15-17]. In this context, considering that social support given to couples may reduce mental problems and positively affect the success of treatment, it is thought that it is important to address the mental problems and social support of the couples together.
In our study, it was found that the anxiety, depression, and negative personality scores as SSI subscales of women, who received infertility treatment were higher compared to their husbands. As a result of the study conducted by Patel et al. done with infertile couples, it was found that women were more stressed, anxious, and depressed than their husbands [18]. In the study conducted by Omani et al., it was observed that women experienced more moderate level anxiety, depression, and stress than men [19]. In a similar study conducted by Aldemir et al., it was reported that women experienced more anxiety than men [20]. In the study of Keramat et al., it was found that infertile men had a better mental state than their spouses [21]. In the study conducted by El Kissi et al., it was determined that women experienced more anxiety, worry, and depression compared to their husbands [5]. In the study conducted by Çoban and Dinç, it was found that infertile women showed more depressive symptoms than men [22]. In the study conducted by Boadi and Asenta, it was determined that infertile women had high anxiety, somatization, and depression scores [16].
In the study conducted by Moghadam et al., it was found that depression is seen as more common in women compared to men [23]. In the study of Dilek and Beji, it was found that infertile couples participating in the study were emotionally affected by this situation during the treatment process, and that women experienced more emotional problems than their husbands [4].
Similar results were found in our study and it is an eye-catching finding that is in parallel with the literature. This situation can be explained by the fact that the social pressure and stigmatization, with which women are exposed, is higher than men, regardless of the fact that the cause of this infertility is stemming from whom. At the same time, it is thought that women's mental conditions' being worse than men might stem from the facts that women's bodies are exposed to more severe invasive and traumatic procedures than their husbands in the treatment of infertility, and from the hormonal drugs used by women during the treatment process.
Infertility is a difficult process in which individuals face an unexpected situation and disruption in future plans. The social support they perceive from their relatives is very important for couples to cope with this difficult process [24]. In our study, it was found that infertile women had a total MSPSS score of 62.6±14.2, and that infertile men had 59.2±14.2 (Table 3). As a result of our research, it was determined that the perceived social support level of women is higher than men. In the study conducted by Aldemir et al. with couples who received infertility treatment, it was found that the mean MSPSS total score was 71.91±12.17 in women and 70.38±11.71 in men [20]. In the study conducted by Martins et al. (2014), it was found that the perceived social support levels of women were higher [7]. In the study done by Sreshthaputra et al., it was determined that women have better social support than men [25]. These studies show similarity to the findings of our study. This situation can be explained by the fact that women share their feelings with their husbands, family, or friends more than men, that they are more social and that they can use social support systems well.
Infertility is a complex life crisis for couples. The perceived social support levels by couples may affect their coping with infertility problems. It is thought that sharing feelings, thoughts, and problems experienced by infertile couples with family members, friends or a counselor reduces the experienced stress [24]. As a result of the statistical analysis performed in our study, it was found that there was a negative weak and severe relationship between all sub-dimensions of SSI and all sub-dimensions of MSPSS and total score (p<0.01). It was found that as the perceived social support levels of the couples increased, the symptoms of anxiety, depression, negative self, somatization, and hostility decreased. In the study conducted by Altıntop and Kesgin, it was found that as the level of social support in infertile couples increased, their state/trait anxiety levels decreased [11]. The study conducted by Patel et al. found that low social support projected infertility stress in couples receiving infertility treatment [18]. In the research conducted by Malina and Pooley; it has been found that as the social support decreases, the happiness of the couples and the realization of pregnancy as a result of the treatment are negatively affected [17]. As a result of 12 studies examined by Chow et al., it was found that psychosocial interventions generally improved the mental state, marital relations, and pregnancy rates of infertile couples [15]. In the study of Yazdani et al., a positive relationship was found between the use of different coping strategies by infertile couples and their perceived social support systems [26]. In the study conducted by Aldemir et al., it was found that as couples' perceived social support increased, anxiety and depressive symptoms decreased [20]. In the study done by Ilerisoy, it was found that family support was the most important coping mechanism in which couples share the difficulties they experience when diagnosed with infertility and their negative feelings they experienced during the treatment process [27]. In the study conducted by Martins et al in Portugal with an infertile couple, it was found that the stress factor of infertility was caused by low spousal support for women and men, and that low family support for women was also effective in experiencing stress. In the study conducted by Martins et al. with women who received infertility treatment, it was found that perceived family support may have a strong effect on women coping with infertility stress [7]. In the study conducted by Slade et al., it was found that the perception of stigma was associated with low social support for both genders, and it was determined that anxiety, depression, and infertility stress increased as social support decreased [8].
The importance of social support in coping with psychological problems experienced by infertile couples during the treatment process has been emphasized in many studies. In studies conducted with infertile couples, it was found that as the perceived level of social support increases, the psychological problems they experience decrease. The result of our research is similar to the literature. In this context, the fact that infertile couples, who are in a crisis period of their lives, receive social support from their spouses, families, and friends has an important place in order to be able to overcome the difficult treatment process in a healthy way. As a result of our research, it can be thought that people use social support resources in stressful situations and get positive effects. In addition, the positive perception of social support during the treatment process can be explained with the fact that they do not feel the fear of abandonment thanks to the social support they receive from their spouses, that the couples regain confidence and belief in themselves, that they feel themselves well and valuable, that they experience a sense of deficiency less or none, that they ignore stigmatization and loss of status and that they apply appropriate coping strategies.